This cross-sectional observational study, on the demographic data of women with vaginismus, is consistent with the reports from other parts of the world. In the current study, the mean age of the women with vaginismus and their husbands is 29 and 33 years, respectively. This finding is in accordance to a similar study, conducted in another Muslim society, Turkey, in which Munasinghe et al. (
8) reported a mean age of 29.8 ± 5.4 years for women and 33 ± 5.9 years for their husbands. A study from Netherlands also reported similar results, with mean age of about 29 for their women with vaginismus (
9). However, a study from Britain, by Konkan et al. (
10), also reported a lower age for women with vaginismus, with mean age of 24.9 years for their patient population. This result is consistent with a report by Ghazizadeh et al. (
11), in another report from Iran.
The educational level of our study population was quite higher than that of the general population, with over two thirds of the investigated women having a bachelor degree or higher and over 60% of that same status for their husbands. Similar findings have been reported by Tugrul et al. (
7), from Turkey. Interpretation of this finding may raise several controversies, because this study only reports data of those who have attended our clinic and represents no data on the problem’s status in the general population. Therefore, on the one hand, several may propose that vaginismus is more prevalent among people of higher socioeconomic levels, while on the other hand, others would debate that people of higher education levels are more meticulous in their sexual health and are more likely to attend a clinic for lesser levels of problem. Moreover, shyness of talking about such issues, in people of lower socioeconomic levels, might also provide another explanation. Similar reports from other countries support our conclusion and consistency of this finding, in a global perspective (
8,
12-
15).
In the current study, the most prevalent time duration between marriage and attending the clinic was 1 - 3 years (43% of the total population), which is consistent to the existing literature. For instance, in two Turkish studies By Munasinghe et al. (
8) and Dogan et al. (
15), the mean marriage time before the physician consultation was 26 and 15 months, respectively. The long time duration of symptoms, without attending a doctor, can be explained by shyness to consult for such an issue with someone else, a belief of spontaneous improvement of the illness with cooperation of the couple, disappointment of finding a successful treatment, absence of special centers for sexual complaints or being unaware of their existence, or a combination of the mentioned factors. It is worthy to note that the more vaginismus becomes a chronic issue, the more it would be harder to treat (
10). The reason for this situation is the development of secondary sexual complications, including erection disorder in the husband and female, sexual desire disorders, depression and anxiety disorders. Moreover, perversion in sexual relations effectively disturbs marital relations, which itself augments anxiety levels in women with vaginismus and complicates the therapeutic process. For the same reason, it is generally believed that women with vaginismus need couple therapy.
In most of our patient population, parents of the couples were not aware of their problem. This finding is in concordance with reports from different cultural societies, as Eserdag et al. (
14) and Konkan et al. (
10) reported similar results, from Turkey and London, respectively. Therefore, reluctance of the couples to share such a problem, with their more experienced relatives would alarm us about the formation of a vicious circle that more deeply complicates the problem. Although, one may debate that this may also be considered a positive issue that could perfectly prevent maltreatment of the condition that can make things even worse. All these evidences would more remarkably show the necessity and relevance of consultation and therapeutic centers for sexual disorders to be easily accessible for the families.
Although most of the study participants were satisfied with their marriage, the majority of them were reporting unsatisfactory sexual relations. It has been shown that unsatisfactory sexual relations between the couples can finally end in unsatisfactory marriage relations, as well, which will increase the risk of divorce (
16). In a study on the couples who had been attending the courts in a divorce trial, over 60% reported unsatisfactory sexual relations with their spouse (
17).
Most of the participating women, in the current study, were virgins before marriage. Only 8.7% of the women had undergone hymenectomy for their problem. A similar observation has been reported from Turkey (
8). Such non-scientific procedures, like undergoing hymenectomy for vaginismus (
18), reveal inadequate knowledge and wrong ideas, either among the couples, or even the health professionals, in managing the problem and evidence the necessity of public education and providing potent health service, in order to initiate interventions in such problems and prevention of complications arising, due to inappropriate therapeutic endeavors.
In the current research, 45% of the husbands of women with vaginismus developed erection disorders, which is consistent to the report by Munasinghe et al. (
8) in Turkey. However, these are higher than a report by Eserdag et al. (
14), again from Turkey. Moreover, in our study, the most frequent subspecialties, which were consulted by couples with the problem, were urology and gynecology. On one hand, this fact shows development of the impotency in men, in a mutual association with vaginismus in their wives, and, on the other hand, unveils the high proportion of patients who consult with not-related specialties, which we believe can substantially worsen their problem. Our study also reveals that general practitioners had the lowest share of getting consulted by the couples, and this is a very alarming issue that should be highly regarded because, to prevent malpractices and development of complicated illness, general practitioners act as the frontline interveners that would best serve to treat or refer the couples to the right specialists. The high number of patients coming from other parts of the country also reveals the necessity of expanding family health clinics, on a nationwide scale.
This study has several limitations. First of all, the study population had been collected from women attending our family health clinic. This can put a certain type of bias on the demography of our patient population, compared to its real status. Moreover, our study methodology is unable to provide the prevalence of vaginismus among the Iranian people, and it requires further population-based studies, with powerful designs, to attend this issue.
In conclusion, the current study showed that vaginismus, in Iran, is more observed among women of mean age of 29 years, higher socioeconomic levels and mostly with marriage duration of 1 - 3 years. Vaginismus was also associated with a high rate of erectile dysfunction, in the husbands. Moreover, most of the investigated couples had been getting consultation from unrelated specialties, for their problem, before they attend the family health clinic. Also, several of them went under hymenectomy, which is considered a wrong therapeutic intervention. All these should alert us to pay more attention to the critical issue of sexual and family health, and expand such centers around the country.