Unintentional or spontaneous abortion (SA) is one of the most common complications of pregnancy (
1,
2). It refers to abortion without any intentional measure. The underlying mechanisms of SA are very complex, and hence, SA prediction and prevention are very challenging for healthcare providers (
1). Around 10% - 20% of all pregnancies end with abortion, and the prevalence of SA in the southeast of Iran is 15.7% (
3).
Review studies on thousands of women reported that abortion has many different complications for women. Examples of these complications are loss of self-confidence in 90% of cases, substance abuse in 50% of cases, suicidal thoughts in 60% of cases, suicide attempts in 28% of cases, and severe post-traumatic stress disorder in 20% of cases (
2). Abortion also has a heavy disease burden and high mortality rate in some countries, particularly developing countries (
4,
5).
Psychological complications are among the most common complications of SA. Studies show that at least 48% - 51% of women with SA experience psychological complications (
2,
6). Anxiety is one of the highly prevalent psychological complications of SA (
2), such that many women with SA experience high levels of anxiety during the first 6 months after abortion (
7). Anxiety is more common and more severe during the first 12 weeks after abortion (
3). Some studies reported that abortion does not directly cause psychological complications; rather, factors such as pre-abortion mental health status, domestic violence, desire for pregnancy, and financial status can contribute to post-abortion anxiety and depression (
8,
9). However, a study reported abortion as a stressful and traumatic event that leads to psychological complications (
10).
The psychological manifestations of SA are almost identical to the psychological complications of losing an infant (
11) or an adult significant other. Accordingly, grief is one of the common reactions to SA (
12). The American Psychiatric Association considers grief as a normal depression in response to the death or loss of a beloved one (
13). Grief at SA is as severe as grief at other types of major losses (
14). Grief at the loss of a significant other is a completely personal process with a relatively predictable course and includes reactions such as temporary impairment of daily activities, retreat from social activities, intrusive thoughts, and subjective sense of numbness and emotional unresponsiveness that last for various periods of time (
15). Although grief is a normal and non-pathologic phenomenon, it may lead to complex and long-term grief, particularly if the loss is sudden, violent, or traumatic (
16).
Self-talk (ST) is a non-pharmacological therapy for psychological problems. By definition, ST is an internal voiceless, low-voice, or loud-voice dialogue through which individuals interpret their thoughts and emotions, change their evaluations and beliefs, and teach or promote themselves. It plays a significant role in the relationship of events and emotions and can help individuals calm themselves, control their anger, cope with difficult conditions, maintain their concentration and mental readiness, improve their motivation and skills, and retain their self-confidence (
17). The 2 types of ST are positive ST and negative ST. Positive ST aims at correcting interpretations of events and can resolve most emotional and behavioral disorders (
18), reduce anxiety, and improve self-confidence. On the other hand, negative ST can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, and burnout. Self-talk can turn into a habit and influence individuals' attitudes and behaviors (
19). It is a key factor in studying individuals' thoughts and beliefs, and its effective management without any force, command, or personal advice is a prerequisite to behavioral modification (
17).
Most studies into the effects of ST were conducted on individuals with high educational levels and athletes. A study in this area reported that negative ST had a significant role in the pathology of eating disorders (
20), while another study found that positive ST improved coping skills among women with breast cancer (
21). A study on patients with coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) also showed that ST had significant effects on death anxiety and coping strategies (
22). However, there are no reliable data about the effects of ST on anxiety and grief among women with SA, and hence, the current study was conducted to provide further data in this area.