The divorce rate among military personnel has recently seen a substantial rise. However, no research has been conducted to examine this phenomenon among military personnel in Iran or the factors contributing to it. This study is the first to address this topic. Military personnel and their families face unique challenges that can strain relationships and increase the risk of divorce. To better understand this issue, we can refer to statistics from the United States Army, where the divorce rate among female soldiers was 4.54% and among male soldiers was 2.9%. These rates are higher than those in all other professions and occupations in the United States and more than twice the national average divorce rate in the country (
8).
The most commonly mentioned factor for divorce in the current study was economic issues. Supporting this finding, a report from the US Army indicated that higher salaries and benefits for married individuals led to military personnel marrying at a younger age, highlighting the importance of economic factors in the continuation or dissolution of marriages (
9).
Economic challenges cited in the study include insufficient salaries that fail to meet the daily needs and welfare requirements of families, compelling personnel to seek second jobs (e.g., taxi driving or sales) despite such activities being prohibited. This additional employment reduces family time and increases stress. The economic strain often leads to frustration and potential hostile behaviors, stemming from financial inadequacy and perceived inequalities compared to other organizations. The consequences of economic pressure create a cascading effect. For instance, the necessity of taking on a second job diminishes the quality of family time, directly impacting spousal relationships. Moreover, the perceived mismatch between the demands of military service and income generates disappointment and frustration among military personnel, further straining marital bonds. The second influential factor in divorce identified in our study was job relocations. Consistent with our findings, a study by Karney et al. in the US Army reported that deployment and relocation, as well as the constant readiness for combat, act as persistent stressors in marital relationships. Issues stemming from prolonged deployments include infidelity, difficulties in re-establishing communication, and sexual relationship problems (
10). Another study by Rossiter and Chandler identified deployment and relocation as the primary factors influencing divorce among female military personnel (
11). Relocations contribute to increased stress and weakened social support networks, difficulties for spouses in accepting or accompanying relocations, disruption of family stability and challenges in adapting to new environments, complexities in children’s education and social adjustment, and potential cultural clashes when moving between different regions. Insufficient welfare facilities ranked as the third most significant factor in our study. A report on U.S. Army personnel highlighted that soldiers tend to marry at a younger age compared to non-military individuals, largely due to the rewards, benefits, and facilities provided for military personnel (
9,
10,
12). Conversely, it has been observed that when soldiers leave service, the loss of benefits—such as access to housing—becomes a significant source of stress and pressure for these individuals (
13).
Mental health disorders were the fourth most influential factor identified in our study. In the United States, one in five military personnel is diagnosed with PTSD, although this figure is likely an underestimation due to stigma (
14). PTSD and other anxiety disorders are strongly associated with poor mental health, leading to decreased marital satisfaction for both the military individual and their spouse, thereby increasing the likelihood of divorce (
15,
16). The effects of these disorders on marital relationships are profound and include emotional numbness, lack of empathy, and communication difficulties. These challenges underscore the critical role of mental health support and targeted interventions in mitigating the risk of divorce among military personnel and their families. The fifth factor influencing divorce in our study was the personal characteristics of the personnel. Two theories address this issue: One suggests that stress and military duties lead to divorce (stress theory), while the other posits that individuals entering military service are inherently at a higher risk of divorce due to their personal characteristics or backgrounds (selection theory) (
12). However, a study found no evidence supporting the stress theory, highlighting that longer military service does not necessarily result in a higher divorce rate among military personnel, thereby challenging the stress theory (
9).
Sexual suppressions were identified as the sixth factor contributing to divorce in military environments. Job conditions and prolonged deployments create challenges in reintegrating with spouses and lead to difficulties in sexual relationships (
13), which can erode marital stability.
Inadequate access to mental health services ranked as the seventh factor contributing to divorce in our study. Beyond economic and logistical barriers, stigma surrounding mental health services from cultural and social perspectives remains a significant issue in society. This stigma appears to be even more pronounced within military forces. According to the U.S. Army's experience, a substantial number of soldiers refrain from seeking mental health assistance due to stigma and fears of jeopardizing career advancement. This avoidance exacerbates underlying issues and leads to long-term challenges (
14).
Cultural changes, specifically extramarital relationships or infidelity, were ranked as the eighth factor. Other researchers have also identified infidelity as a significant issue during the extended separations and absences that military personnel experience (
13). However, it has been suggested that infidelity often arises as a consequence of pre-existing problems in relationships that were already troubled (
17). Therefore, the nature of the military job and long-term absences should not be regarded as the primary causes of infidelity. Instead, cultural shifts may have contributed to an increase in extramarital relationships, particularly in relationships that were already strained.
Another factor identified in our study was insufficient life skills, which, according to consulting experts, has led to both major and minor traumas occurring daily. These traumas contribute to emotional numbness and a lack of empathy, ultimately deteriorating marital relationships. Similarly, another study suggested that military personnel with weak emotional adaptation skills are more likely to develop PTSD. These individuals, upon returning from deployment, often experience emotional numbness, leading to significant issues in their relationships with their spouses (
18). The lack of awareness and sufficient education before marriage was also recognized as a contributing factor in our study. A study examining the relationship between divorce and deployment suggested that the success of a marriage depends largely on the difficulties that military personnel and their spouses can endure during deployment. Internally strong marriages are more likely to withstand these challenges (
19). The awareness and reactions of the spouse play a pivotal role in either maintaining or destroying a relationship. This issue is so critical that one study emphasized the necessity of involving the spouses of military personnel with PTSD in the treatment process. It recommended that spouses should be officially included in therapeutic interventions to improve relationship outcomes (
18).
The work environment was another reported factor affecting marital relationships. The unpredictability of military duties, long missions requiring time away from family, and the associated stresses are significant contributors. Various studies have presented conflicting findings regarding the impact of missions on divorce. Some studies have suggested that prolonged absences from home, frequent relocations, and inflexible schedules increase the likelihood of military divorces (
20,
21). Conversely, another study indicated that a higher number of days spent on missions is associated with a lower likelihood of divorce (
9). Other studies have taken a more nuanced approach, emphasizing the cumulative time spent on missions and its correlation with the risk of divorce, regardless of exposure to dangerous military situations (
10). One study highlighted that while deployment and missions may be associated with separation and divorce, these outcomes primarily depend on the challenges that military personnel and their spouses must navigate during deployment periods (
19).
Given that this study is the first of its kind in Iran, and comparable studies outside the country are limited and not directly applicable to Iranian society and its armed forces, our findings provide a unique opportunity to identify the most influential factors contributing to divorce within the armed forces of the Islamic Republic of Iran. Based on these findings, targeted interventions can be designed to reduce and manage the risk of divorce in this population. Specifically, addressing economic issues, reducing constant relocations, and improving welfare facilities should be prioritized in intervention programs aimed at mitigating divorce rates among Iranian armed forces personnel.