The findings of this study indicated that through a qualitative encounter with a client, it is possible to detect health problems in different domains and label them as nursing diagnoses. Mothers of children with cancer in Iran may improve many health problems in different health domains, which need to be considered in the care plan of their children.
“Knowledge deficit” about the disease is one of the matters for parents of children with cancer. This means lack of information about the disease’s process, treatment and its prognosis, related to the lack of previous exposure, lack of interest in learning about this issue, cognitive disability or lack of familiarity with sources of information about the subject (
6). In the case of the mothers participating in this study, lack of previous exposure and lack of familiarity with information sources were the main reasons for their knowledge deficit. This is confirmed the results of another study, in which participants frequently mentioned their knowledge deficit about the disease as the most important factor in their inability to make decisions (
12). In a qualitative study in Iran, inadequate knowledge was one of the themes extracted from the interviews with mothers of children with cancer (
13). However, in this study, mothers expressed their desire to increase the level of knowledge about cancer and its treatment. Health-seeking behaviors are one of the themes in the study of Renner and McGill (2016) with the aim of exploring factors influencing health-seeking decisions and retention in childhood cancer’s treatment programs. They believed that knowledge deficit is one of the important related factors and non-professional approaches may lead to mistreatment (
14). When the patient and his family showed interest to have knowledge and expressed their own knowledge deficit, nurses mentioned diagnosis of “readiness to increase knowledge”, then educational planning for determining different goals in psychomotor, cognitive and emotional domains was necessary (
6).
Nursing diagnosis “hopelessness” is defined as a state of mind in which the personal choices are limited and there is no escape of a situation, and there is no energy of its own. This situation can occur in patients with multiple symptoms. Among them, isolation, negative statements about the future, fatigue and lack of interest, the feeling of being abandoned, etc. can be mentioned (
6). Other studies also reported hopelessness of parents, especially mothers of children with cancer (
15-
17). Despite existing available tools for discovering hopelessness (
18), it can be discovered through daily communication with the parents of a child with cancer, by their expressing negative feelings about what would be happen in the future for their child. It has been shown that social support can cause less disappointment and hopelessness. This is confirmed in the present study. Active encouragement of parents to take advantage of social support networks and their financial support, positively affected their level of frustration and hopelessness (
16).
“Situational low self-esteem” means expressing negative feelings about themselves, due to the current situation, is one of the factors affecting the mental health of parents of children with cancer. Verbal expression of negative feelings about themselves and the challenge of finding the causes of negative events were the major features of this nursing diagnosis (
6). In parents of children with cancer, low self-esteem occurs after several times of their inability to control the situation and they feel that compared to others, they are surrounded by misery (
19). In another study, it is considered as one of the late psychological effects of cancer of child on parents (
20). As hopelessness is an obstacle for optimism and coping of parents, it is crucial to be found in parents of children with cancer and managed as a part of a family centered care (
21).
“Stress overload” was one of the other nursing diagnoses for mothers who participated in the study, which means high number of requests by mothers that were required to be answered. Verbal expression of lots of stress and physical, mental, cognitive and behavioral reactions associated with the disease of the child were signs and symptoms of this nursing diagnosis, which was obtained from the interviews of this study. Constantly trying to adopt with very hard conditions of cancer, the matters arising from burden of caring, commuting from remote areas to hospitals, and financial issues arising from the existence of a chronic illness, were among the related factors cited for this diagnosis which was also observed in our study. Considerable were the feelings of loneliness of mothers in the care of child caused by dissuasion of father for various reasons. Some of them eliminated their husbands from the treatment process in order to protect them, while in the others, the husbands themselves resigned on their own. This increased the effect of stress on the mothers (
22). High levels of stress in mothers of children with cancer have been noted in other studies (
23) and this stress can have a negative impact on parents’ adjustment to chronic illness and cancer, and this directly affects the quality of life of children (
24).
“Ineffective role performance” and “role conflict” were among the problems seen in mothers of children with cancer in this study. Ineffective role performance means behavioral patterns, which, are not matched with expectations and norms, with features like uncertainty, burden of care, ineffective coping with the situation and expressed anxiety. In fact, individual believes in his inability to perform his roles, or others see his behavioral patterns as indicative of ineffective role performance. Inadequate supports, limited resources, unrealistic expectations from themselves, knowledge deficit and ineffective communication with the health care providers, are some related factors to this diagnosis (
6). In our study, mothers frequently expressed their dissatisfaction in playing their multiple roles, including social, marital, and parental and mentioned their focuses on the burden of care, frequent staying in the hospital and lack of supportive and helpful partners, as the main reasons. Other studies also mentioned intensifying parental role for sick children and its adverse effects on other roles (
25-
27). After the diagnosis of children with cancer, their mothers are confronted with new roles, which include a commitment to physical proximity with the child to ensure 24 hours care and providing his comfort. This causes fundamental changes in their other roles and social functions, especially the role of the parents to other children (
28).
Studies have also supported the result of the recent study about “ineffective social interactions” and “social isolation” of mothers of children with cancer (
27-
29). In other studies, the loss of employment opportunities and reduced income of mothers of children with cancer are mentioned (
30), but these were not mentioned in our study by mothers. Although social isolation, withdrawal from others and lack of utilization of community resources and support of relatives and friends were the matters mentioned in our research which support the results of other studies (
22,
31). It seems that nurses should care about problems of parents especially mothers and encourage them for effective interaction with the community and enjoying from the positive effects of social support systems (
31).
“Altered family process” means changes in family relationships and functions, which are characterized by the lack of appropriate reactions of family to the crisis. This would cause not meeting the needs of each member of family, and it is related to factors such as an interruption in routines of family due to illness, changes in psychological state of family members due to child’s illness, the financial burden put on the family and frequent hospitalizations of child (
6). In this study, the mothers reported that their family routines were greatly affected by their child’s condition. This study supports the results of other similar studies (
32).
Fatigue, impaired social interaction, lack of use of social support systems, exhibiting behaviors, which inhibit adaptation, expressing worries and chronic anxiety were the matters, which were repeatedly reported in the interviews by participants and are the characteristics of the nursing diagnosis “ineffective coping”. In this situation the person does not use effective methods to cope with the situation (
6). Mothers participating in our study used the emotion-focused coping strategies such as resorting to religion, optimism, positive thinking and trying to have positive thoughts of which the findings are consistent with the results of other studies (
33,
34), but in the end the presence of a lot of symptoms, such as crying, social isolation, and ineffective family relationships showed failed adaptation. On the other hand, occurrence of psychological issues including death anxiety and chronic sorrow were factors, which affected ineffective coping of mothers. Participating mothers frequently expressed the obsession over the death of child, which is consistent with the results of other studies (
35,
36). Chronic sorrow or episodic presence of behaviors like worriedness and sadness, concern and discomfort at the time of some events like a death of another child in hospital or cancer recurrence in their own child, are what most of mothers of children with cancer experience (
37).
Spiritual well-being is one of the aspects of health, which can be threatened by several factors such as one’s own or a close relative’s illness. Spiritual distress is one of the nursing diagnoses characterized by inability in making meaning out of life by simply connecting to a particular endless power. Several questions about the cause of death and illness, frustration, feelings of being empty, inability to feel the joy of life and recent interest in spiritual issues and questions are recognized as features of this diagnosis (
6) which were also seen in the mothers in our study. Fear of reprisal of God for sins, the belief that children disease was the atonement of parents’ sin and feeling of the wrath of God were the cases, which were observed in this study. This originated from the religious beliefs of Iranians. Due to cultural reasons, women were faced with many spiritual and religious challenges. Although by appealing to religion and spirituality and ceremonies and religious rites like vow and repentance, they tried to adopt positively with the disease but in bereavement crises arising from fluctuation of the disease, feelings of hopelessness and helplessness were experienced. Results of other studies also emphasize that the role of spirituality and religious issues highlighted in the parents dealt with their child’s cancer (
22,
38,
39). Spirituality acts as a positive factor for compatibility of child and her family with cancer (
40). So that spiritual distress is a cause for anxiety and maladaptive behaviors (
41). Since the role of religion is so important in Iranian culture, and several studies indicate high incidence of religious and spiritual challenges in cancer patients or their families (
17,
42,
43), familiarity of nurses with this nursing diagnosis and necessary interventions to change the spiritual insight of mothers of children with cancer is essential. This is more considerable when all mothers emphasize on the presence of spirituality as a positive factor for adaptation with cancer of their children.
4.1. Conclusion
This study explored the health problems in different health domains in mothers of children with cancer through a qualitative approach of assessment. Concerning children with cancer, physical, psychological, social and spiritual health of mothers directly affects the health and quality of life of their children. One of the requirements of family-centered and holistic care for children with cancer is to assess the health status of family members, especially the primary caregiver of the child. The results of this study can give oncology nurses an insight into the problems of different domains of health of mothers of children with cancer through their daily conversations. Since the integration of family-centered care to conventional care is one of the strategic objectives for children with cancer in Iran, the results of this study can meet the needs of planner’s attitude about psychological, social and spiritual problems of mothers of children with cancer. Establishment of care protocols of non-physical problems without having information about the issues those mothers of children with cancer experience in these areas, is not possible. Therefore, although participants in this study were all selected from teaching hospitals and among the medium and low socioeconomic levels, which were the limitations of the study, the results of this study can open a window towards obtaining consciousness and attitudes about the overall needs of families of children with cancer. As the only nursing diagnoses with existing definitive characteristics in all participants were included, many other nursing diagnoses (representative of other health problems in mothers of children with cancer) were ignored.