The current study compared sexual satisfaction, intimacy, and partnership with sexual functioning of the couples with one SCI-affected partner referring to a sexual health clinic.
The correlation between sexuality and body wellness is documented worldwide. SCI has a significant impact on individuals` sexuality due to the personal feeling of his/her own sexual capability (
1,
3,
24), as well as the social labeling of individuals with any form of disability, which may be considered to be synonymous with asexuality (
3-
5,
25). People with SCI have problems with their marital longevity and each partner has his/her own concern with threatened intimate relationship (
4,
5).
Participants in the current study, both genders, got lower scores in SS, although the difference between the study groups was insignificant. There was a significant difference in the means of intimacy and partnership between the groups (P < 0.035); in male sexual functioning (P > 0.001) the difference was significant between the SCI and non-SCI groups. Similarly, there are a vast number of reports pointing out significant changes in sexual life of people with SCI, among the married couples in particular (
26,
27). Kreuter argued that intimate partner relationship is adversely affected by SCI, which places the marital relationship at a higher risk of divorce and conflict (
26).
Although the current study subjects showed low scores in most aspects of marital interactions, the partners with SCI were significantly different from the ones without SCI in EMS, MA, and BI. Similar to the current study subjects, other people with SCI in the studies worldwide also got lower scores in sexual activity and reported lower satisfaction compared with those of their control groups (
2,
5,
28). McCabe and Taleporos reported that people with physical impairment experience lower levels of sexual self-esteem, sexual confidence, poor quality of sexual life, and significantly higher levels of sexual depression (
29).
The current study also evaluated the differences between male and female subjects identified as the well partners. Regardless of their wellness, both male and female subjects with a SCI-affected spouse also got lower scores in SS. There is no question that partners of SCI-affected individuals consciously or unconsciously alter their tasks in the course of intimate partnership (
3,
4,
25). Reports show that female subjects involved in a partnership after SCI do not consider themselves as a spouse, but more as a caregiver than being a wife or sexual partner (
4,
5,
30), and some others believe that after the injury the partner change and is not as she used to be (
30).
This alteration is highlighted through the societies in which well body is the essential factor in a successful sexual interaction (
29)and the Iranian culture is not an exception (
31). Merghati Khoei, an Iranian sexologist, pointed out in a study that marital and sexual life is socially scripted based on the gender-related folk theories. Masculinity means a well body and sexual potency, and femininity means reproduction and child bearing ability (
32). She argued that these constructions are jeopardized with any form of disability, SCI in particular (
33).
Interestingly, the current study found no significant differences (P > 0.05) in sexual functioning of females with or without SCI, although they reported lower scores of FSFI. It was argued that wives sacrificed their lives as soon as their husbands become injured and not capable to perform sexual intercourse. Their roles change to be a caregiver instead of being intimate sexual lover. In other words, they deny their sexual rights and interests through post-SCI-life (
4,
30). Burden of caregiving is clearly shown in couples with one SCI-affected partner; consequences including diminished welfare, increased stress, tiredness, anger, depression, and denying their personal health needs and complications (
5,
34).
Sexual relationship power is always male-dominated in some societies (
7,
35). This ring of power suffers if a male loses his sexual ability, no matter if his partner is still sexually active (
35). Small sample size can be the further explanation of this finding.
5.1. Conclusions
In conclusion, sexuality of people with SCI is far more complex and faces clinical, social, and cultural challenges. Post-SCI sexual life extensively changes. The couples' sexual needs vary compared with their well body counterparts. This means that all the considered conditions and situations should be effusively addressed in all spinal units and recovery centers, along with other aspects of treatment and rehabilitation.