Participants’ numbers by age group were as follows: 13 years old (9), 15 years old (9), 16 years old (10), 17 years old (8), and 19 years old (4). Twenty-eight participants were guidance school students, eight were high school students, and four university students. Age at menarche ranged from 11 to 15 years, with a mean of 13.4 years. The counseling needs of adolescent girls were categorized in 33 codes, 10 groups and 3 main clusters (physical, psychological, and social). The sub-categories of physical problems included personal hygiene, reproductive health, nutrition, exercise and physical activity, and regular sleep. Psychological problems consisted of solitude and depression, shame and embarrassment, and mood swings. Social problems consisted of participating in groups and feeling independent. Each of these categories and sub-categories are presented with quotes from the participants as follows:
A) Physical problems:
1- Personal hygiene: most participants stated that during puberty they felt that they should shower constantly due to their bad body odor and needing to shave.
Quote: “It’s very bad. I should take a shower almost every day because of smelling bad. Indeed I should shave or use some other things. It’s a bad feeling.”
- Nineteen girls showered during their menstruation. The others thought it to be harmful. Unawareness was the root of this inaccurate belief in such girls. Fourteen girls had acquired this belief from their relatives such as their grandmothers.
- Most adolescent participants knew about facial pimples during puberty; however, they did not know how to treat them and tended to use rapidly acting medication.
Quote: “I asked my friends about acne treatment and I searched the internet. I bought some vegetable soap.”
2- Reproduction and its health: twenty-seven participants had enough information about menstruation, dysmenorrhea, and hygiene issues in this period. They mentioned using sanitary pads or clean cloths, a method of washing their genitalia, using warm towel or hot water bottles for dysmenorrhea, and avoiding foods that cause bloating during menstruation. These girls had obtained such information from their mothers, sisters, friends, or the internet.
Quote: “It’s painful. I use hot water bottles and my mother makes me home remedies.”
Thirteen participants had very little information about contraceptive devices. Nearly all participants had no information about sexually transmitted diseases and their prevention methods.
Quote: “What on earth is sexual disease?! Do you mean a disease specific to the female or male sex?”
Most of the participants were too shy and embarrassed to talk too much about sexual relationships or pregnancy.
- Only half of them knew about vaginal discharge, and the remaining girls did not have any information about vaginal infection, its symptoms, and complications. Most participants had negative feelings about menstruation and perceived it as something bad and disgusting.
Quote: “I don’t like menstruation. I’m not comfortable with it…at parties, on travel, even at school.”
3- Nutrition: we found a strong preference for fast foods, such as sandwiches and pizza, among the participants. Nine girls stated that their appetite had increased and that they ate more food, especially sweets, compared with the past. Considering that adolescents need more calcium, 16 girls stated that they did not like yogurt and milk because they experienced abdominal pain and sleepiness.
Fifteen girls consumed an adequate daily amount of vegetables (mostly in the form of salads) and fruits. The most frequent in-between meals that they ate were samosas, piroshkis, and potato chips. One of the girls said, “Cheese sandwiches are for children, not us!”
4- Exercise and physical activity: Three girls were interested in skating and skated in the park at least once a week. One girl was a member of her school’s volleyball team. In addition, two girls swam during the summer. Six participants stated that they only walked from home to school and considered that physical activity. The remaining participants used the school bus to go to school.
Quote: “We don’t have enough time to exercise and play sports.”
Quote: “Although it is advised to have physical activity, I think we are young and we will have time in future for it. I prefer to play on the computer.”
5- Regular sleep: twenty-eight participants mentioned that they had an average of less than 8 hours of sleep per night that was sometimes as little as 4 hours; this was usually attributed to studying, watching television, or working with the computer. Five girls said they compensated for the lost sleep in the afternoons.
Quote: “I can’t sleep easily. Maybe because of my late sleeping, during the day I am drowsy and tired.”
Quote: “Nowadays technology does not allow us to have enough rest. We enjoy new modern technology and it doesn’t matter that we have less sleep. I believe we will get used to it.”
B) Psychological problems:
1- Solitude: most participants said they preferred to be alone and thought solitude and withdrawal to be more comfortable. They did not like socializing, especially when their parents insisted on it and often perceived it as excruciating.
Quote: “Most of my hobbies at home involve studying, chatting, and watching TV. So I prefer to be alone in my room, but at school and parties, I go with my friends.”
2- Feeling ashamed and embarrassed: Eighteen girls mentioned that they were ashamed of their appearance and constantly wanted to look better. Their physical changes did not make them feel good; therefore, they did not like to be in a crowd, even if it was their family. They were especially embarrassed in the presence of their fathers and brothers.
Quote: “My face is full of pimples and freckles. I can’t wear tight clothes. I have become taller and my clothes become too short quickly. I hate myself and I am ashamed in front of others.”
3- Mood swings: sixteen girls had become irritable, and even the smallest thing would irritate them.
Quotes: “Sometimes I’m really fresh, while other times I can’t stand anybody. I become agitated and angry quickly and lose my temper.”
“I am constantly fighting with my older brother and we criticize each other.”
C) Social problems:
1- Participating in groups: most girls stated that they liked to socialize with their peers and dress and act like their friends. In fact, a group of friends consists of people with common interests.
Quote: My parents don’t let me choose my clothes. They criticize how I dress.”
We found that adolescents are faithful to their peer groups and are sensitive toward other people criticizing their group.
Quote: ”My mother criticizes one of my friends and says I should not see her; she’s a bad person. But you can’t judge people by their appearance.”
2- Independence: five girls regretted that they could not work in addition to studying and that they were financially dependent on their parents. They wanted their parents to have faith in them and give them some responsibilities in the family.
Sixteen participants felt that their home and family was not a safe place to be hopeful and eager to maintain and strengthen family ties and create a family in the future.
Quote: “I want to have a say in issues that are related to me and decide for myself…like what extracurricular lessons to take and at what time…. I want to choose my job in the future, not my family.”