The findings of this research indicated that infertile females with a history of unsuccessful assisted reproductive technology (ART) treatments had a high level of infertility stress and moderate acceptance of adoption. There was a negative relationship between the two variables, which means that increasing infertility-related stress leads to adoption decrease, but this correlation wasn’t statistically significant.
All the participants showed some level of infertility stress and most of them had moderate to high stress. This finding corresponds with the findings of Grill (1997) (
24). Grill et al. believed that infertile couples mostly know infertility as the most stressful event in their life and describe the frequent and recurrent courses of treatment as frequent courses of crisis. The results of this research confirmed the findings of other researchers, who acknowledged infertility and the stages of its diagnosis and treatment as sources of stress and tension (
25-
27).
Beutel et al. (
28), Thiering et al. (
29) and Beaurepaire et al. (
30) believed that the increase in the number of unsuccessful cycles will increase the women’s tension. Jaaferpour et al. (
31) believed that the difference between the treatment length mean and the period of patient’s awareness of his/ her infertility and their divergent effect on the intensity of infertility stress indicated the severe impact of the diagnosis and treatment stages on the patient’s psychological well-being. These researchers’ findings are in the same line with our findings. In addition, all of our participants had a history of assisted reproductive technology treatments and mentioned at least one IVF failure or three unsuccessful IUI and they showed high level of infertility stress. These findings confirm Koropatrick et al. findings (
32) and contradict Daniluk’s study results, which indicated that the patients’ stress will decrease after a period of time (
33).
In this study, the participants received high scores in all aspects. This indicates the effect of infertility on all aspects of their life (social aspect, sexual aspect, relational aspect, life style with no child, the need to be parent).
Different researchers have different ideas about the effect of infertility on the couples’ relationship. Many of them have reported a decrease of marital compatibility between the couples because of the infertility, while others believed that patience during the stages of infertility diagnosis and treatment will increase intimacy (
27). Sandelowski et al. (
34), by investigating 52 American couples, found that time is a very effective variable in marital compatibility of females. He believed that passing of time decreases marital compatibility of infertile females. Investigating the relationship between marital compatibility and infertility stress in Iran, Jaaferpour et al. (
31) concluded that the more stress people experience due to infertility, the less marital compatibility they will have.
The results of this study showed that females with primary infertility of more than five years and history of ART failure, had a moderate attitude towards adoption; 46.6% had a weak attitude, and none of them had a high attitude. In the study of Bagheri et al. on a group without an adopted child, 10% of females and 18% of males had a weak attitude towards adoption and only 8% of females and 16% of males had a high attitude. In this study, none of the participants with an adopted child had a weak attitude towards adoption and there was a statistical difference between the two groups of participants with or without an adopted child (P = 0.00) (
16).
Mohanty (2014), after interviewing1200 Singaporeans, concluded that most of the interviewees agreed with adoption as a form of family. Those, who cared about a biological relationship and were worried about the consequences of accepting adoption (compatibility, medical and behavioral problems, etc.), had a lower tendency towards adoption (
35). Since in this study the interviewees did not have an infertility problem and their ideas were investigated generally, it cannot be concluded that there exists a high attitude toward adoption. Based on Mohanty’s conclusion and the current research findings, there is an obvious need to increase society’s awareness about adoption and promote “adoption” as a sensible choice to form a family.
As our findings indicate there was a negative relationship between the two investigated variables, which means that increasing infertility-related stress leads to a decrease in adoption. For many infertile couples, the time between diagnosis, treatment and outcome can be extensive and, if medical treatments are unsuccessful, couples are left to decide if they want to continue treatments, stop treatment, pursue adoption or stay childfree (
36-
38). In the study by Sundby et al. (
39), 56% of the women, who had started fertility treatment 10 years before, had considered divorce, and 17% actually ended the relationship. Furthermore, in some cultures, the concept of voluntary childlessness may not even exist (
40). Infertility, childlessness and adoption have the potential to severely impact an individual’s life (
22), and since to our knowledge there are no studies focusing on the relationship between adoption and stress, specially infertility-related stress, thus more studies are required.
When examining couple’s attitudes towards adoption, approximately one-fifth wanted to pursue adoption in the future, while more than a half were undecided regarding pursuing adoption at one-year follow-up. According to Letherby et al. (2010), adoption can be a challenge to one’s self-identity, and thus expectations about one’s relationship and future likely play a key role in decision-making (
41). According to Thorn et al. (2010), adoption is often the last resort since the majority of infertile couples initiate medical treatment without considering alternatives, hoping that the treatment will be successful (
19). The study by Peterson et al. (2015) showed that a small percentage of participants confirmed that they wished to pursue adoption after one year of medical fertility treatment, which may reflect that the majority of the participants still had the possibility of future ART cycles. The number of participants, who had a positive attitude towards pursuing adoption, was higher than the number of participants who ended up seeking adoption (
22), As our findings suggest, the hope to be cured was the most important reason that prevented people from adopting. Leiblum et al. (
14), in their investigations, recognized that infertile females did not lose hope to have a biological child even after long periods since discontinuing infertility treatment. This may complicate the ‘process of liking; for the families, who adopt a child.
This study was limited by the use of a quantitative method, which revealed factors of importance regarding infertility patients’ decision-making, but did not allow for further details, which could possibly explain the identified associations. Moreover, the sample size was relatively small. Future quantitative studies would benefit from including a larger number of participants, and enabling multivariate analyses, which could take potential confounders into account.