The current study investigated the relationship between defense styles, resilience, and caregiver burden in mothers of children with cancer. The findings revealed that, on average, the mothers of children with cancer experienced a moderate level of caregiver burden, which aligns with previous studies conducted by Motlagh et al. (
29), Chaghazardi et al. (
7), and Ahmadi et al. (
22). However, a study by Kahriman and Zaybak reported lower levels of caregiver burden among parents of cancer patients (
30). Differences in the study population and the tools used to measure caregiver burden may partially explain this discrepancy. Based on our observations, in Iranian culture, mothers generally assume the primary caregiving role for their sick children, believing that no one can care for their child as well as they can. Given the extended caregiving responsibilities that Iranian mothers undertake, it is not surprising that they experience a significant caregiver burden.
The results of this study also showed that the mothers exhibited high levels of resilience, consistent with previous studies by Mohammadsalehi et al. (
31), Toledano-Toledano et al. (
32), and Maatouk et al. (
33). However, these findings contrast with the studies by da Silva et al. (
34) and Üzar-Özçeti̇n and Dursun (2020) (
35), where da Silva et al. reported that most participants had moderate resilience (
34), and Üzar-Özçeti̇n and Dursun found caregivers had low resilience (
35). Differences in the duration of caregiving for a child with cancer may explain the discrepancy in resilience levels between the mothers in this study and those in the previous research. Resilience is a multidimensional concept that can evolve over time and is considered a potentially modifiable factor (
32).
Furthermore, the results of this study revealed that the majority of mothers used neurotic defense styles. This suggests that mothers of children with cancer may adopt less effective coping mechanisms, such as neurotic defense styles, due to the exhausting nature of caregiving. However, if they can balance their defense mechanisms and employ more mature defense styles, they may achieve better adaptation (
36). Abeni et al. similarly found that family caregivers predominantly used immature defense mechanisms (
20), which is partially consistent with the present study's findings.
The study also found a significant inverse correlation between resilience and caregiver burden (P = 0.002). This is in line with Manzari et al.'s study (2023), which examined the relationship between caregiver burden and resilience in family caregivers of COVID-19 patients (
37), and Rasulpoor et al.'s study, which explored the relationship between caregiver burden, resilience, and coping styles in mothers of children with autism (
38). Resilient individuals tend to view challenges as opportunities for growth and prefer change over stability. The caregiving process for children with cancer can be a heavy burden, creating a stressful and overwhelming experience for mothers. Thus, resilience can play a crucial role in alleviating caregiver burden by helping mothers manage the psychological and physical challenges of caregiving (
37).
Contrary to expectations, the results of this study found no significant relationship between defense styles and caregiver burden in mothers of children with cancer. A review of the literature showed no similar findings that align with these results. However, a study on caregivers of older stroke patients found that caregivers experiencing a higher burden of care were more likely to use negative coping strategies, such as escape-avoidance and distancing (which relate to denial, distraction, or detachment) (
39). The discrepancy may stem from differences in the target populations and the data collection tools used.
The results of this study indicated that a child's gender was the only demographic variable that significantly predicted the caregiver burden of mothers of children with cancer. Consistent with previous research (
22,
29), the caregiver burden was found to be significantly associated with the gender of the sick child. Specifically, mothers of male children with cancer experienced a greater burden than mothers of female children. However, some studies did not find a significant effect of a child's gender on the burden of care (
8). It is possible that gender indirectly influences caregiver burden by affecting other factors that contribute to its increase. For example, research has shown that girls tend to exhibit more adaptive behaviors than boys when faced with new situations, including accepting cancer treatments (
38). This could potentially make it easier for mothers to manage the challenges of caregiving.
The present study has a few limitations. It focused exclusively on mothers of children with cancer, so the findings cannot be generalized to caregivers of children with other chronic conditions. Additionally, the use of self-report questionnaires for data collection may have resulted in subjective responses.
The study revealed that the caregiver burden among mothers of children with cancer was moderate, while their resilience levels were high. The majority of mothers used neurotic defense styles. Furthermore, the results showed that an increase in resilience was significantly associated with a decrease in caregiver burden. However, no significant relationship was found between defense styles and caregiver burden. These findings suggest that interventions, as well as psychological and counseling programs aimed at enhancing resilience, could be beneficial in reducing the caregiver burden among mothers of children with cancer.