One of the most important factors in sustaining marriage is couples’ commitment. The factors, which define the psychology of close relationships include emotional involvement, dividing thoughts and feelings, and interpersonal dependence or commitment. These factors describe what close relationships are and why individuals form such relationships, and how they develop them. The first factor is emotional involvement, which includes romantic emotions, and warmth and loyalty towards the partner. The second factor involves sharing individual’s emotions and experiences and the third factor is dependence and commitment between two individuals that tie their prosperity together (
1). From Amato’s point of view, marital commitment is defined as the value that couples place on for their marital relationships and how motivated they are to sustain their marriage (
2). Commitment means an individual loves their spouse, i.e. they are loyal to them and avoid any form of relationship with others’ spouse (
3). Commitment is a referral framework of values and beliefs that may be self-made or prescribed by others (
4). Commitment in marriage is defined as the way couples understand the type of relationship in the past and the length of relationship, selecting the behaviors for sustaining marital life, the degree and vastness of a good relationship and an interest in remaining in such a relationship for a long time, and being encouraged to remain in the relationship (
5). Marital commitment is divided to two types: Commitment to spouse and institutional commitment. Commitment to spouse results in maintaining a high level of love and satisfaction in life, while in institutional commitment, an individual pretends to love their spouse although they are not interested in them and they have some other reasons for their commitment to marriage (
6). Without commitment there is no direction and goal in life. If any acquaintance with a focus on marriage does not reach a particular commitment, they will be a failed acquaintance. Commitment is the most powerful and adaptable predictor for a relationship’s satisfaction, particularly for the longest relationships (
7). McDonald believes that marriage commitment includes marital commitment and interpersonal commitment. Marital commitment is defined as a person’s interest in marrying a particular person and being committed to them and it is often treated as a specific kind of commitment and involves legal, social, and interpersonal complications (
8). Strachman and Gable identified and proposed two types of commitment in marital relationships, including commitment to tendency and commitment to avoidance. Commitment to tendency shows a person’s interest in maintaining a marital relationship, while commitment to avoidance implies an individual’s tendency to avoid ending a marital relationship. In simple words, tendency commitment is related to merits and rewards of marital life in the present and future. However, avoidance commitment involves the negative consequences of divorce and costs and subsequent outcomes of separation (
9). Adams and Jone conducted a general investigation of marital commitment and specified three dimensions, including element of attraction, inhibitive dimension, and ethical aspect. In order to find further evidence to support this three-factor structure, they regarded marital commitment as a kind of structural commitment, which is sacred. They also realized that commitment criteria change according to a reference or goal (
10). Rusbult considers commitment in a relationship investment model as a powerful predictor in sustaining many romantic relationships (for example, marital relationship, homosexual relationship, and friendship). The investment model was first introduced by Rusbult in 1980. This model focuses on the process of marital commitment as much as it focuses on the conditions of a relationship’s deterioration. The supporters of this model believe that commitment is an important predicting factor in betrayal. Commitment decreases the temptation for betrayal and provides resources for individuals to enable them to change their focus from seeking long-term pleasure. Therefore, people with a high level of commitment, are more likely to avoid marital betrayal, while people with a low level of commitment may become involved in extramarital relationships. According to Rusbult’s investment model, commitment in marital life is affected by marital satisfaction, the quality of alternatives and investments (
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The investment model in commitment processes has its roots in mutual dependence and has obtained its pattern from zeitgeist in 1960s and 1970s, which is in search of understanding the reason behind an apparently illogical sustenance of such relationships in social behavior. The investment model originally belonged to the field of social psychology, and was beyond a mere focus on positive affection in predicting the sustenance of an interpersonal relationship.
The investment model (1983) provides a useful framework to predict commitment to someone or something and understand the background for commitment reasons. The main hypothesis in the investment model is that the sustenance of relationships is not only due to the positive traits of partners for each other (mutual satisfaction), yet for partners’ connections and relationships with each other (investment) and lack of a better choice beyond the relationship with the current partner (lack of alternative). All these factors are crucial in understanding commitment. According to Rusbult’s investment model, in marital life, commitment is influenced by marital satisfaction, the quality of alternatives and investments (
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A) Marital satisfaction: Satisfaction is a kind of mental evaluation for relative rewards and punishments, which are experienced by an individual in a relationship. They clarify that commitment is reinforced by satisfaction in the relationship. In order to determine the level of satisfaction, people evaluate the costs and rewards in their relationship. The potential benefits and rewards are compared with the individual’s expectations in a relationship. These personal standards are known as assessment criteria. This level of satisfaction is the function of evaluating the level and results of the current relationship. When the obtained results exceed the criterion level, an individual is satisfied with their level, yet when the obtained results are lower than the internal standards, dissatisfaction occurs (
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Research in western countries has revealed that illegitimate relationships take more emotional energy among women and women, who betray are more likely to be dissatisfied with their marital relationship (
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B) The quality of alternatives: The second effective factor in commitment is traits of alternatives, which refer to an individual’s mental assessment of rewards and costs, which are obtained by an individual out of their current relationship, such as spending time with friends, family or spending time in solitude. Basically, the traits of alternatives are related to potential feelings of happiness in an extramarital relationship. Consequently, having attractive alternatives is a potential to reduce marital commitment (
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C) Investments: The third form of commitment includes relationship investment. Investments are obtained tangible or real resources, which intensively reduce the probability of a relationship’s deterioration. Some examples for relationship investment include spending time, affectionate dependence, mutual friends and materialistic possessions. According to the investment model, all these valuable investments have a share in reinforcing commitment (
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In a study conducted by Gao (2000), titled “intimacy, passion, and commitment in romantic relationships” in China and America, the triangular theory of love was investigated in these countries. The data was collected from 90 couples in China and 77 couples in America. Data analysis was done using multi-variable variance and score summation and the results showed that commitment, love, and intimacy could noticeably improve a romantic relationship. In addition, passion is significantly higher among American couples in comparison to Chinese couples. However, commitment and intimacy had no difference in these cultures. On the other hand, Riviz (2006), in a study titled “marital commitment”, arrived at this conclusion that in a marital relationship, there are some ups and downs, and couples are required to work to find a solution in order to maintain a committed relationship. He believed that the key points to build a successful marriage are commitment, loyalty, positive thoughts, proper relationship, kindness, understanding, respect, and common goals. Galna and Stanley (2006) also investigated interactions before marriage and commitment among married people. They investigated the level of individual commitment in 197 married individuals, according to interactions before marriage, longitudinally. The results revealed that men, who had interactions with their wives and cohabited before marriage, were less committed. In Iran, Taba’e Emami, in a study titled “determining and investigation of the relationship between central and peripheral traits of love and commitment among young adults in Isfahan, reached the conclusion that the average scores of grading central traits of love and commitment were significantly related to the peripheral traits of love and commitment. The average grading of males and females was compared by making use of variance analysis. Although there were some differences between central traits of love and commitment among men and women, no significant difference was observed between them in terms of peripheral traits of love and commitment. Another study conducted by Shahsiah (2009), titled “the investigation of the relationship between sexual satisfaction and marital commitment”, revealed that there is a significant relationship between marital commitment and sexual satisfaction and there is a relationship between marriage length and marital commitment and sexual satisfaction, and the shorter the length of marriage, the more the sexual satisfaction. Najarpourian (2009) in a study titled “the effect of teaching commitment before marriage on improving commitment traits among female students of Fasa Azad University”, which was conducted randomly on 30 female dormitory students, revealed that teaching commitment improves commitment traits among students and the post-test scores of the experimental group was significantly higher than the control group. This research suggests that in premarital educational programs, the importance and role of commitment and its traits should be added in order to make couples more responsible for starting their marital life.