The findings from this study revealed that mindful training led to a reduction in ambivalent emotions and an increase in emotional expression competence, parenting satisfaction, and efficacy in mothers of bullying children. These changes persisted even after a three-month follow-up. Mindful training can significantly assist parents by fostering non-judgmental awareness (
41). Mindful parenting is integrated into a parent-focused intervention, with the main goal being the enhancement of the parent-child relationship through improving self-awareness, mindfulness, and intentionality in parenting (
39). Research has shown that mindfulness-based interventions have significant benefits for reducing parental stress and managing problematic child behaviors (
42).
The dominant view is that the parent-child relationship and its quality significantly influence early brain development and the onset of mental health disorders. Mindful parenting is defined as the ability to pay attention to your child and parenting in a particular way — mindfully, non-judgmentally, and fully present in the moment (
43). Research has demonstrated that mindful parents experience positive outcomes in the parent-child relationship and reduced maternal stress, along with decreased behavioral issues in children (
44). Furthermore, mindful parenting has been linked to high-quality parent-child relationships, such as positive emotional connections between parents and children (
45). Studies have shown that early maladaptive schemas mediate the relationship between individuals' perceptions of their childhood experiences with caregivers and their current feelings of parenting competence. Furthermore, stronger early maladaptive schemas were associated with lower levels of parenting competence (
46).
Given the effectiveness of mindful parenting on parenting competence, it can be argued that mothers of bullying children often experience feelings of helplessness, confusion, low self-confidence, and inefficacy in their parenting style. Mindful parenting interventions aim to reduce parental stress, increase acceptance, and foster non-judgmental approaches, which may lead to higher-quality caregiving (e.g., more warmth and responsiveness) (
47). Generally, parent training programs provide significant assistance to parents, particularly mothers of bullying children, by increasing their awareness. A study comparing two parenting methods for mothers of bullying children — coaching approach behavior and leading by modeling (CALM) and supportive parenting for anxious childhood emotions (SPACE) — found that both programs were effective in reducing rumination and anxiety in mothers (
15).
Based on the findings of the study, conflict over emotional expression was reduced through mindful parenting training. It can be concluded that since mothers of bullying children often suffer from tension, stress, distress, helplessness, and negative emotions caused by their children's bullying behavior, mindful parenting training, by controlling parental stress and preventing extreme responses to negative child behavior, helps reduce negative challenges between parent and child and promotes successful experiences in managing children's behavior. It can also be argued that in mindful training, parents learn conflict and avoidance response patterns by using personal examples and can identify their habitual responses, such as worrying and using punishment or deprivation when dealing with parenting issues. By gaining insights, they can find opportunities for more mindful responses (
43).
Therefore, increased self-regulation might be the strongest mechanism in breaking the compulsive parent-child cycles related to external behavioral expressions, and improvements in value clarification and flexibility can help parents support children with behavioral problems (
48). Mindful parenting teaches parents to focus their attention on their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, and to deliberately, present-focused, and non-judgmentally attend to their children (
49). Concerning the effectiveness of mindful parenting in emotional expression, it can be argued that individuals with higher levels of trait mindfulness report more positive emotions, adaptive emotional regulation, greater social connection, higher satisfaction in interpersonal relationships, stable cortisol levels, and reduced experiences of depression, anxiety, and stress, compared to individuals with lower levels of trait mindfulness (
47).
Mindful parenting is interpersonal and refers to a deliberate moment-to-moment awareness of the parent-child relationship. By listening attentively to the child, fostering emotional awareness and self-regulation in parenting, and creating compassion and non-judgmental acceptance for both the parent and child, mindful parenting strengthens parent-child interactions (
50). Parents who understand their feelings and thoughts can better connect with their children and help them become emotionally regulated and adaptable (
51). When parents become aware of their emotional reactions and experience them personally, they show fewer emotional responses to their children and can use the parenting knowledge and skills they have learned. As a result, their capacity for emotional regulation and coping is enhanced. This increased emotional awareness enables parents to better understand their child's emotions (
52). By practicing non-judgmental acceptance and focusing attention on their breath, parents can pause before reacting to their child, which in turn reduces their stress levels and diminishes emotional disturbances (
53).
Mothers of children with behavioral and social disorders, and even those with children at risk, require skills to overcome their children's problems and prevent psychological harm. Parenting skills can also enhance their sense of parenting competence, which is closely related to the concept of parental self-efficacy and belief in their ability to effectively perform the parenting role. Intervention programs can help these mothers increase their ability to express positive emotions, thereby reducing stress, negative feelings, and a sense of inadequacy, which in turn leads to improved mental health for both the mothers and their families. It seems that parenting programs, when conducted in a group setting, can contribute to parents' awareness and enhance their parenting experiences. Parents have the opportunity to become familiar with each other's perspectives and gain mutual understanding. When these programs focus on growth and mindfulness, they tend to lead to more positive outcomes and changes.
This study was conducted with some limitations. For instance, sample size, self-report bias, lack of blinding, and follow-up duration. In addition, data were exclusively collected through questionnaires, indicating that some participants might have refrained from giving truthful answers and may have provided inaccurate responses, and the sample size of the research was small. Besides, this study was conducted solely with mothers of bullying children who attended the Razi Counseling Center in Karaj, Alborz province. Fathers often have less interest or fewer opportunities to participate in parent training programs, whereas having both parents involved in the training would yield more effective results.
Raising children, in itself, is a stressful responsibility, and this stress increases when children exhibit harmful social behaviors, such as bullying. The mindful parenting program helps parents by providing exercises and assignments (e.g., guided meditation, body scan, and breathing exercises). This program not only fosters mental calmness but also offers awareness that helps parents gain a deeper and less stressful understanding of their life circumstances. This research has practical implications for school counselors, pediatricians, and psychologists, who can apply these findings in real-world settings.
While parental emotion regulation encompasses multiple components, this study focused specifically on emotional expression due to its observable and communicative impact on children's emotional and social development. However, the researchers acknowledge this limitation and agree that future studies should incorporate a broader spectrum of parental emotion regulation skills, including regulation strategies and emotional awareness. Additionally, the researchers agree that factors like parent-child interaction and disciplinary practices play significant roles in bullying and should be considered in subsequent research to provide a more comprehensive understanding.
5.1. Conclusions
The findings from this study showed that the mindful parenting program was effective in reducing conflict over emotional expression and increasing parenting satisfaction and efficacy in mothers of bullying children. Since mindful parenting emphasizes reducing parental stress in parent-child interactions, it empowers parents for further coaching and monitoring. Hence, mindful parenting can be used to enhance parenting competence. Furthermore, as mindful parenting provides more effective strategies for emotional regulation, it can be applied to improve emotional expression. Thus, using mindful training can enhance mothers' ability to express positive emotions and reduce stress and negative feelings, while increasing their competence and promoting mental health for both themselves and their families.