The results of interviews with 18 FSWs showed that the youngest age at the initiation of prostitution was 15 and the oldest age was 37 years old with an average of 24.4 ± 8.51. Most of the FSWs were divorced (12 = 66.6%) and migrated from rural to urban areas (3 = 16.6%) or from small towns to the city (6 = 33.3%). Approximately half of the participants (8 = 44.4%) experienced early marriage, often to escape the conditions imposed by their family, and the age of first marriage among this group was between 12 and 18 years.
The results showed that the majority of the clients did not like to have safe sex. They did not use a condom or did not like to use it. As FSW1 mentioned, ‘Men don’t use condom. Very few use it, unless they are forced’. Despite this, all the participants tried to convince their clients to use a condom. Participants said that even though they had unprotected sex in the past, but now all of them tried to have safe sex.
There were 2 main reasons why they tried to have safe sex, which was illegal pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. They believed that illegal pregnancy was bad because their new-born does not have any legitimate status in the society. Thus, in this situation, most of these pregnancies led to an abortion. Since abortion is illegal, it is performed underground under high-risk conditions and may be life-threatening.
On the other hand, sex workers were concerned about sexually transmitted diseases, such as HIV and hepatitis. Many of them had adequate knowledge about sexually transmitted diseases due to comprehensive packages provided by the DIC.
Nonetheless, having safe sex is not as easy as it is said. Having said that, many of their clients tried to have unprotected sex. They said that the majority of their clients force them to have unprotected sex and they usually bargain and insist on having unprotected sex. Generally, this bargaining process ends with the victory of the FSWs and their clients accept using a condom. However, this bargaining is hazardous for prostitutes. Analysis of the statements revealed that there were 5 issues that determined the bargaining process, which were as follows.
4.1. Price
Unprotected sex is more expensive than safe sex. This means that clients preferred unprotected sex for more pleasure even if they had to pay more money. Since money is a motivational factor, FSWs are willing to have unprotected sex.
Some clients said that ‘if you force me to use a condom, I’ll give you less money’ (FSW7).
This statement shows that many clients provide motivation for prostitutes to have unprotected sex. However, more experienced FSWs look at this issue from a cost-benefit point, yet younger ones do not pay attention to this issue.
I have two rich clients, who live in the UAE. They provide whatever I want. If they want to have sex with me, even if they offer me millions of Rials without condom, I will reject it (FSW2).
Thus, each sexual encounter includes bargaining about the price of having safe or unprotected sex.
Many of the girls are not worried about getting pregnant or even sexually transmitted diseases, they only want to make more money (FSW1).
4.2. Having a Pimp
Another reason for having unprotected sex is because there is no one there to protect them. Hence, some prostitutes prefer to work with pimps. A pimp could be a man or a woman. Male pimps protect prostitutes in exchange for money or sex, yet female pimps (khale) only do this for money. Therefore, the presence of a pimp can be a determinant factor in having a safe sex.
(Khale) doesn’t allow anyone to have sex without a condom. She says if you are going to work in this trade, do it in a way so that you don’t get sick. You don’t know whom this man has been with and whom he will sleep with after you. Khales are usually very vulgar and unrefined. If anyone tries to have unprotected sex, she becomes very angry, and starts to scream and shout (FSW4).
It seems that female pimps could play a pivotal role in protecting sex workers. They are the one, who convince the clients to have safe sex. Khale is more concerned than their male counterparts when it comes to unprotected sex. The statement below is from FSW No 7, who plays the role of Khale in addition to being a FSW.
Many men say that we want to have sex without condom, and then I say no to them. I say to them, it doesn’t matter if you accept or not because I have lots of clients, I’m not going to bargain with you over this issue because I don’t want anyone to get sick (FSW7).
4.3. Older Age of Prostitute
Another important factor in having safe sex is the age of FSWs. For young girls, money is very important. Additionally, at this age, young men and women don’t have enough knowledge or in-depth evaluation of the potential risks of unprotected sex. All of the participants mentioned that young men and young prostitutes rarely use condoms.
A man pairs with a girl for pleasure. For example, one man stated ‘I don’t like to use rubber. I want to enjoy it’. Many girls don’t use condom. But 90% of the FSWs over the age of 25 use condoms (FSW1).
Age does not only influence the behaviour of FSWs, and also has an effect on sexual behaviour of young clients:
Young boys and girls don’t use condoms. Some boys don’t have any place to go, so they have sex in their cars or in an alley without a condom. They just want to satisfy their sexual urges (FSW1).
4.4. Health Literacy
The participants were aware of the risks involved in unprotected sex, as expected. This is due to their participation in educational courses at the DIC centre. They believed they had gained adequate knowledge. An FSW statement about the DIC centre:
I went to different educational classes here. At the DIC there was an educational course on a weekly basis. I learned about sexually transmitted diseases. Thus, if one of my clients rejects using condoms, I won’t have sex with him. I used to have a boyfriend and we used to have unprotected sex. But if I want to have sex with him again, I will use condoms because I’m really afraid of AIDS (FSW5).
Another participant, who had an associate degree in business management and her thesis on AIDS and hepatitis, stated that her co-workers are aware of sexually transmitted diseases and they protect themselves in their sexual relationships.
Yea, we all use condoms and use antibacterial gel as well. Mari and I work at the same place. Some men, who don’t have a clean appearance or we are suspicious that they might have a disease, we immediately use gel. We use Betadine in the W.C. to clean ourselves after having sex or use sodium bicarbonate when we feel itchy. We talk to our co-workers a lot in order to create awareness (FSW12).
However, the main problem is clients. Many of them always try to have unprotected sex for having more pleasure. In this scenario, literacy level of both the client and the FSW is vital. A FSW, who is also a Khale, introduced a 13-year-old girl to a doctor. She stated that the doctor had safe sex with the girl.
The girl had a wart on her abdomen. The Doctor then used a plastic bag to cover the wart then he washed his hands. He forced the girl to wash herself. The girl initially asked, "do you want to use a condom?" The doctor said, "Yea, I’ll use condoms and since my legs will contact yours I want to put a plastic bag on your legs too". These types of people are very rare (FSW1).
This statement shows how a safe sexual relationship is performed. Because this person was fully aware of the threats.
4.5. Clients Craving
A client’s sexual urges could be a determinant factor whether or not he is willing to use a condom. If the client is horny, it is most likely that he won’t be bargaining for having unsafe sex, provided that the FSW stands strong and vice versa. Thus, bargaining before sex is an important strategy. Expert prostitutes know this issue and based on this they bargained with their clients for protected sex. Knowing this, they could easily move on to their next client, if the person does not accept their condition.
For example, a client came to my house and said let’s have sex without condoms, he said that I promise I won’t ejaculate inside of you; I told him that this has nothing to do with that. He started to bargain again but I told him no and he left. But he went with someone else who didn’t bargain for using condoms (FSW11).
Therefore, clients craving has a positive effect on declining unprotected sex.