In the present study, the experiences of professional and familial caregivers at the NICU regarding the phenomenon of FCC phenomenon were studied, and the essential themes were extracted. One of these essential themes was “evocation of being at home” with three subthemes, namely, “meta-family interaction,” “comprehensive support,” and “reconstruction of a normal family.”
The hospitalization of a neonate in an NICU is stressful for a family and may disturb its functions. In this respect, FCC prepares parents for playing their parental roles in such circumstances. In contrast to what was believed in the past, the presence of a caregiver is respected and accepted by families, and fulfills their needs through communication that may be similar to their familial style (
17). In this study, familial caregivers experienced their presence in the NICU as similar to their presence at home and having communication with their own family members. Moreover, they perceived and received comprehensive support through this communication. Furthermore, professional caregivers perceived and received support in relation to the family and their colleagues.
The meta-family interaction subtheme included “emotional identification with somebody” and the “persistence of therapeutic communication.” A nurse spoke about emotional communication, saying, “We really had no nerve to transfer her to another ward, you know we didn’t have the heart to do it, we loved her so much.” Furthermore, another nurse intended to keep in touch with the neonate after discharge. She said, “If, for example, it was arranged that we visited the baby more after discharge or it was arranged that, for example, the mother would come and the personnel could see the baby it would be great, and we would be less worried about the baby”
Some of the participants even went beyond this level of engagement and talked about the reciprocal feeling of being a member of the family. One nurse stated, “We feel a maternal role in ourselves. On many occasions, I say ‘my darling,’ ‘my daughter,’ or I see that a nurse says ‘my honey,’ ‘I love you’” Also, one of the mothers mentioned, “Every one of these nurses was considered to be a main member of our family.”
The parents kept in touch with the NICU nurses after discharge for solving their neonates’ therapeutic problems, and even informed the nurses about their general conditions. At the same time, the personnel embraced this relationship enthusiastically. One of the nurses said, “When a baby that is in a ward like the NICU is discharged, his/her care is not finished. It is still going on. We follow-up to know how he/she is taken care of and we follow him/her.”
Both professional and familial caregivers emphasized the experience of “comprehensive support” through FCC. They believed in this support and declared that they received it completely. The belief in the existence of this support among familial caregivers was expressed in the form of describing a shared feeling, causing them to feel calm. One of the mothers said, “Some nurses really took care [of my baby) very well. That was a weight off my mind. For example, when I was going home. I was feeling that if I wasn’t there, she was taken care of very well.” Another mother also mentioned, “I felt easy in my mind that he was here because I saw their care and I trusted them.”
Even professional caregivers believed that they were supported by familial caregivers and their intra/inter-profession colleagues. One nurse said, “Her baby is connected to a pulse oximeter. I put her baby in her arms with two other babies whose mothers are absent now, and I should really do their deeds. I feel ease in my mind knowing that he/she is in his/her mother’s arms, and if something happens the mother lets me know. I do my other tasks.” Another nurse also said, “We enjoy it a lot when our special physician relies on us and even expresses it.”
The familial caregivers’ experiences of receiving comprehensive support, including informational, spiritual, psychological, religious, and cultural support, were tangible. One mother talked about receiving informational support from the physician, saying, “When you ask any questions, he answers. Then, he, for example, explains everything to you clearly. When you’re at your patient’s bedside he describes that she has this problem, for instance, so I don’t discharge her because of this problem.”
One of the main needs of the parents is psycho-spiritual support, which can facilitate adaptation to the neonate’s hospitalization and enhance the ability to handle difficult situations. In this regard, one mother maintained, “I was going to my son’s bedside, and I was really crying, but the personnel told me not to cry there because he gets it, we do what is necessary for him, he’ll be ok These words made me calm and relaxed.”
With respect to financial support for families, a social worker stated, “We could take a 16 million tomans. The remaining amount is about 12 million tomans, which they can pay in installments.”
Professional personnel also receive psycho-spiritual and informational support from each other. One of the physicians said, “We try, like today, to hold classes every Thursday and give them (the nurses) new information so as to involve them in patients’ affairs. I say that my own belief is that the awareness of babies’ nurses must be more than that of their doctors.”
“Reconstruction of a normal family” as the third study subtheme included “welcoming of presence, stay, and participation of familial caregivers in the NICU” and “preparing to be a parent.” The participants talked about the enthusiastic acceptance of caregivers from families. One of the physicians said, “I personally say if a baby’s father and mother don’t come to the hospital for 2 - 3 days. I surely say that this baby is like Hutch the Honeybee (laughing), you know, because it’s very important for me that they get involved in their baby’s affairs and I follow-up on the situation.” Additionally, a mother stated, “ When I sat outside for just about five minutes, they called me and told me my baby was crying, and if I would like, I could go and embrace him and calm him down. Whenever he was crying, they did me this favor.”
After a neonate’s hospitalization and his/her isolation from the family, one of the main problems for parents, especially mothers, is the disturbance of the parental role (
27). FCC provides the groundwork for the parents to recognize their own distinctive and irreplaceable role as a parent. One of the mothers under study mentioned, “From that day, Mrs. [X] encouraged me to do her chores up to now, and I feel like a mother. I mean, when I didn’t do her chores, I didn’t feel that I was her mother.”