Children’s experiences during circumcision and their suggestions are also important; however, a limited number of studies exist on this subject. It has been stated in the literature that circumcision should not be performed during the phallic phase because it may cause augmentation and persistence in castration anxiety. In our study, 44.8% of the boys were circumcised during the phallic phase. In a previous study that was conducted to understand the behaviors and knowledge of mothers on circumcision, Yilmaz et al. found that most of the mothers preferred the phallic phase for circumcision because of their low levels of education (
15). In their study, Ustuner et al. also found that 42.2% of the parents preferred the same age period for circumcision (
16). There is also information in the literature that circumcision is performed between 3 and 13 years of age, before puberty in Turkey (
1,
3,
17,
18). The families should be informed about the possible harmful effects of circumcision during the phallic phase and that circumcision should not be performed in this phase, unless there is a medical indication. There are a few studies about the long-term psychological effects of male circumcision. Goldman et al. reported that in the USA, circumcised men’s feelings generally include anger, sense of loss, shame, sense of having been victimized and violated, fear, distrust, grief and jealousy of intact men (
19). Similarly, Hammond stated that circumcised men have emotional distress, including feelings of mutilation, low self-esteem, genital dysmorphia, rage, depression, violation or parental betrayal (
20).
When the boys in our study were asked about the most suitable age for circumcision, a large number of them stated that it was during infancy, and the reasons most stated for their answers were that this was the most suitable time, the pain would be less, the procedure would be easier and the procedure would be without fear. In their study, Ustuner et al. stated that mothers most often chose age of three to six years as the most suitable age to be circumcised and stated that they chose this age because they thought that the child would not be afraid (
16). In the same study, only 4.1% of the families stated that infancy would be the best age for circumcision and that healing quickly was their reason for choosing this period (
16).
Circumcision is something that is done for religious beliefs, traditions or health. At the same time, it is considered to be the beginning of a boy’s sexual life and the ability to reproduce. When children, who participated in this study, were asked why they were circumcised, 69.3% stated that it was for religious reasons, while 55.8% stated that circumcision was necessary to be a man. In their study, Yılmaz et al. stated that mothers reported religious reasons as the primary reason for circumcision due to being part of a Muslim society (
15). In Ustuner et al.’s study, about half of the families thought circumcision was necessary because of its positive effects on health, while the other half thought it was necessary for religious reasons (
16). In Sahin et al.’s study, most of the mothers stated that their reasons for circumcision were religious and traditional, while very few of them stated that the medical benefits were their primary reasons (
3). In the same study, it was found that the mothers whose levels of education were low tended to want circumcision for traditional and religious reasons (
3). In Turkey, circumcision is believed to be the beginning of the process of becoming a man and a member of society, and not being circumcised is unacceptable (
3).
An important aspect of circumcision in Turkey is the moral values of the society. Circumcision is the first sign of a boy’s transition into manhood in Turkish culture (
3). It is usually carried out with ceremonies accompanied frequently by music and entertainment that are important social events for families (
21). Therefore, it is a ritual used to be celebrated with music and dance or prayers together with guests and relatives, according to the preferences of the family. In this ritual, the child, who most commonly wears a special bright costume with a pelerine and wand looks like a king. Also, his courage is rewarded by giving him various presents (
3,
22). It is important for the child to experience these moments and remember them in the future (
23,
24). This thought is considered as a reason of having a late circumcision in Turkey. In our study, half of the children stated that a ceremony was necessary, and 68.4% stated that they had a ceremony for their circumcision. Three quarters of the children stated that they underwent their circumcision willingly. These results suggested that circumcision has quite positive connotations from children’s perspectives.
Informing the child with respect to his age in advance to the surgical procedure is essential. In our study ıt was found that children were not informed regarding this procedure. The reason for this was that children might not have been informed in circumcisions, which took place in other places than hospitals and performed by circumcisers, not doctors. Nowadays, operations are carried out by surgeons and circumciser (
25). Traditional circumcisers are still preferred by parents (
3,
22). In Corduk et al.’s study, it was found out that 42% of boys were operated on by a circumciser (
23). Our results indicate that the traditional approach is still common in Turkey.
Our study found that 54.6% of the children had various levels of pain during the procedure. Additionally, in our study the children were mostly anesthetized locally. We also found that a circumcision performed at a hospital, under general anesthesia and by a surgeon effectively reduces pain. When the levels of pain were analyzed in terms of age, it was found that the levels of pain experienced by the children between three and six years of age were higher than those in other groups.
In our study, a significant association was found between the place where circumcision was performed, the person who performed the circumcision, the type of anesthesia used and the pain, fear and grief of the child. The children, who were circumcised at home, those who were circumcised by a circumciser, those who were circumcised without being anesthetized and those who were circumcised in the phallic phase experienced more fear during circumcision. Sahin et al. found that ten boys, who were younger than three years remembered being afraid while they were being circumcised. The majority of the children, who were circumcised during phallic phase experienced negative feelings during circumcision, that is, they had anxiety (
3). In our study, 38.4% of children had more than moderate fear. When Verit et al. asked male health care professionals what children felt during their circumcision, 33% stated that they experienced fear (
22).
Children, who are going to have a circumcision, develop a fear weeks or months before the procedure. In addition to not knowing what will happen, children may not want to expose their genital organ to others, they may fear that they will experience pain and changes, such as sleeplessness, unrest and rebellious or aggressive behavior. Knowledge that other children are being circumcised by force and without an explanation of what’s going to happen, without being prepared and anesthetized will increase fear and psychic trauma. In Corduk et al.’s study, 38% of boys stated that they were frightened during circumcision (
23). In their study, Verit et al. stated that of males between 25 and 45 years of age, 81% stated that they were circumcised by traditional circumcisers rather than surgeons and 90% were found to have been circumcised at home (
22). Previously, circumcision was performed by traditional circumcisers. However, when the results of the study were analyzed, a transition was seen in the provider of circumcision, from circumcisers to surgeons. In their study, Sivaslı et al. found that 72% of the families stated that circumcision should be performed at a hospital (
26). These results show that Turkish people are becoming more conscious. However, the rates of preferring surgeons for circumcision are still not at desired levels. Circumcision should always be performed at hospitals by surgeons, who are familiar with the procedure (
11).
The sample of this study consisted of children living in a city in Turkey. The findings cannot be generalized for all Turkish children.
4.1. Conclusion
It was found that, almost half of the children, who were not sufficiently informed before circumcision were circumcised at an unsuitable age and that they experienced too much pain and fear during the procedure. The results of this study indicated the necessity of public education on circumcision. Based on these results, recommendations can be made to educate families about circumcisions. Before the circumcision, the procedure should be explained clearly to the child, and he should be prepared psychologically. Families should be educated that circumcisions are performed in hospitals by surgeons, in a suitable age range and with optimal pain management.