This study examined the relationship between eating disorders and alexithymia, as well as the mediating role of self-differentiation. The primary hypothesis, proposing that self-differentiation mediates the association between alexithymia and eating disorders, was confirmed. In other words, individuals who have difficulty identifying and expressing emotions typically exhibit lower levels of self-differentiation, which may serve as a mediating mechanism that increases the risk of maladaptive eating behaviors. Self-differentiation enables individuals to preserve their personal identity, maintain balanced emotional relationships with others, and sustain equilibrium between personal autonomy and emotional connectedness. Therefore, reduced self-differentiation may contribute to unhealthy patterns, such as emotional fusion or relational cutoff (
19). This finding is consistent with Bowen’s theory, which describes self-differentiation as a central factor in emotion regulation. Accordingly, individuals with low self-differentiation may have difficulty distinguishing emotion from logic and may be more inclined to use maladaptive eating behaviors to cope with negative emotions.
This mediational pattern is consistent with recent evidence indicating that emotional distress, including anxiety, stress, and depression, mediates the relationship between alexithymia and addictive behaviors (
9). This suggests a common mechanism through which emotional deficits may translate into dysfunctional coping, with self-differentiation representing a more foundational, personality-level mediator in the context of eating disorders.
The findings also showed that the direct relationship between alexithymia and eating problems was not significant in the path model, whereas the pathway through reduced self-differentiation was significant. This pattern suggests that alexithymic traits may not directly lead to disordered eating; rather, they may weaken an individual’s sense of psychological separateness and self-regulation in relationships. When these internal boundaries are diminished, eating behaviors may become a maladaptive strategy for regulating emotional and relational distress. Therefore, interventions that focus only on improving emotional labeling may be insufficient if they do not also strengthen self-definition and self-regulatory capacities.
The second finding of the present study indicated a positive and significant relationship between alexithymia and eating disorders, consistent with the findings of Lian et al. (
14), Muir et al. (
6), and other related studies. In essence, higher levels of alexithymia corresponded to greater severity of eating disorder symptoms. However, in the path analysis, the direct effect of alexithymia on eating disorders was not significant. This finding suggests that the influence of alexithymia is expressed indirectly through self-differentiation, as confirmed by the primary hypothesis. Individuals with elevated alexithymia may be more likely to engage in maladaptive eating behaviors, such as emotional binge eating or dietary restriction, under stress or negative emotional states, in an attempt to regulate suppressed affective experiences. This pattern is consistent with psychological theories conceptualizing alexithymia as a vulnerability factor for eating disorders. The non-significant direct path, together with a significant indirect effect, is also consistent with findings in other domains in which the effects of alexithymia on behavioral outcomes are mediated by emotional and interpersonal variables (
9). Moreover, established links among alexithymia, anxiety, depression, and immature defenses further support the notion that alexithymia may foster a cascade of emotional difficulties that ultimately manifest as eating pathology when adaptive self-regulatory capacities, such as self-differentiation, are compromised (
7,
8).
A deeper interpretation of these findings suggests that difficulty identifying emotions extends beyond a single symptom label. The inability to recognize internal states may increase long-term emotional vulnerability, not only to disordered eating but also to persistent worry, low mood, and maladaptive coping styles (
7,
8). Recent Iranian research has shown that emotional difficulties can contribute to mobile phone addiction through increased depression, anxiety, and stress (
9). In the present model, self-differentiation appears to function similarly, as a regulatory foundation that may influence whether emotional difficulties are expressed through eating behavior. This interpretation suggests that interventions targeting both identity clarity and emotional recognition may be useful across multiple psychological difficulties and may reduce harmful eating behaviors, as well as related symptoms of distress and hopelessness.
The final finding of the study indicated a negative and significant relationship between self-differentiation and eating disorders. This finding is consistent with Bowen’s theory and the work of Liiwong (
20). According to this theoretical perspective, individuals with higher self-differentiation have a greater capacity to manage emotions and stress and may therefore be less vulnerable to unhealthy behaviors such as disordered eating. Bowen conceptualized differentiation as the degree of separation between cognitive and emotional processes and suggested that a person’s level of differentiation reflects the ability to avoid automatic emotional reactions. Differentiation is considered a dynamic and lifelong process rather than a fixed state or final endpoint (
20). The protective role of self-differentiation is also indirectly supported by studies showing that the absence of adaptive emotional resources, as reflected in high alexithymia, predicts greater anxiety, depression, and neurotic defense mechanisms (
7,
8), whereas self-differentiation may counteract these vulnerabilities.
Several limitations should be considered when interpreting the findings. Because the data were collected at a single time point, causal conclusions cannot be drawn. Although the theoretical model supports a pathway from alexithymia to reduced self-differentiation and then to eating disorder symptoms, reverse or reciprocal relationships cannot be ruled out. For example, disordered eating may also reduce personal clarity and self-regulatory capacity over time. The study also relied on self-report questionnaires, which may be influenced by social desirability or underreporting, particularly when participants are asked about eating difficulties and emotional problems. In addition, the sample was limited to students from universities in Tehran who were recruited through convenience sampling. Therefore, the findings may not be generalizable to students in other regions, non-student populations, or individuals at different stages of life.
Other potentially important variables, such as gender differences, body mass index, socioeconomic background, trauma history, attachment patterns, coping styles, and sociocultural pressure for thinness, were not fully examined. These factors may influence both emotional awareness and eating behavior and may therefore affect the strength or direction of the observed relationships. For example, body mass index is often associated with eating disorder symptoms, and gender may influence alexithymia, self-differentiation, and eating patterns. In addition, the study relied on questionnaire-based assessment rather than clinical diagnostic interviews or real-world behavioral measures of eating. Future longitudinal and experimental studies using more diverse samples and richer clinical assessments are needed to clarify the causal pathways linking emotional awareness, self-differentiation, and disordered eating.
5.1. Conclusions
The present findings suggest that difficulty identifying and describing feelings is related to eating disorder symptoms among college students, primarily through reduced self-differentiation. Alexithymia may not directly cause eating problems; instead, it may weaken the ability to maintain emotional balance, relational boundaries, and personal autonomy. Identifying students with low self-differentiation may help detect individuals at higher risk of developing serious eating-related problems. Programs that strengthen boundaries between self and others, such as family-systems interventions, emotion-awareness training, and campus-based counseling programs, may be useful in this context. Helping young adults tolerate difficult emotions without relying on maladaptive eating behaviors may also reduce anxiety and depressive symptoms and support broader student mental health.