The present study examined the psychological experiences of transgender from both gender and interactive dimensions. The results show that the main problem of the transgender is that, because of their biological conditions, they feel contradiction and duality in their identity, and are doubtful in identifying it. They do not have an appropriate understanding of their characteristics. As a result, transgender identity means the conflict in identity because transgender cannot easily respond to their gender questions. Transgender’s confusions in gender identity are along with the feeling of suffering, depression, and stress. Their psychological problems are doubled when a satisfying relationship with the family, friends, and others change to suspicion and negative judgments, labels, discrimination, and rejection. Lack of a supportive system, lack of social capital, biological and physical problems are all leading to weakening the mental health of the transgender. The disgrace, deprivation, rejection, and discrimination increase mental distress such as depression, frustration, anxiety, interpersonal sensitivity for the transgender, and worsen their internal suffering. The present research results are reminiscent of Meyer’s approach. He shows that discrimination, victimization, and stigma are important factors in mental distress among transgender (
12). The researches by Valentine and Shipherd (
10), Ho and Mussap (
1), and Connolly, et al. (
9) confirm to increase interpersonal sensitivity, anxiety, depression, and discrimination with psychological distress and risky sexual practices (
13,
14).
In these conditions, the escape from the past is normal behavior among the transgender that they show to get back their lost trust and self-esteem. They believe that as long as they are connected with the past, they will not be able to complete their new lives. Hence the escape from the past is a strong desire in them. These difficulties gradually reduce the ability of such people to express themselves and adapt to the community and carry them to the margin. A number of deviant behaviors grow in them such as suicide, escape from home, and seeking out illegitimate sexual relations. This finding is in line with Czajkowski’s finding (
15). He found that in different societies, classical values, biases, and clichés impose a prejudiced attitude to the transgender. Such prejudices prepare the grounds for many personal and social problems. Poteat et al. (
7), and Grossman and D’Augelli’s studies (
2) confirm this result. They found that the increase of dependence, reduction of self-esteem, reduced life quality and increased sense of vulnerability are the consequences of this disorder.
There are several reasons why transgender have more intense psychological distress. To describe this phenomenon, Butler used the term gender trouble. To her, the transition to another gender is a crisis in life (Butler, 2006). In her view, through imitation, the system of rewards and sanctions, and obedience of cultural and linguistic agreements, we learn to stylize our bodies and gestures, dress, walk, and talk to project ourselves as women or men. If the surface of transgender bodies exhibits the stereotyped traits of masculinity and femininity, their behavior is seen as expressing their authentic gendered selves. Since transgender is unable to adjust to the roles and functions of the accepted gender, the discrimination and abuse against them also occur. Hence, gender enforcement outside the heterosexual discourse norms will lead to the deprivation of social rights, punishment, and violence (Seidman, 2013).
5.1. Conclusions
In Iran, mainstream society does not accept others beyond the male-female gender norms. Those who live beyond this continuum judged by gender stereotypes and are subject to mental problems and deprivation of access to resources and social benefits. Therefore, it is suggested that the development of proper culture be moderated the inappropriate, deviated interpretations about transgender and replaced by more realistic attitudes. Education and media have a pivotal role in providing specific cultural values for the public. Educating the families and the society, and preparing media programs can be effective in changing the current attitudes and replacing them with more humane and moderate opinions about the identity of the transgender.