The findings of the present study showed that MSE has a direct and significant effect on adolescents' EBDs; as MSE increases, adolescents' Internalized problems (INTPs) and Externalized problems (EXTPs) decrease. In this regard, the findings of Fernandez et al. (
21) and Adewuya and Ologun (
22) studies showed that the more positive and constructive mothers' perceptions of themselves and higher self-esteem, the higher their children's self-esteem. Conversely, low MSE is associated with several problems such as anxiety, depression, psychosomatic disorders, high-risk behaviors, delinquency, and eating disorders in children. In addition, low MSE leads to increased maternal anger and the use of strict control in parenting.
In this study, it was shown that low MSE predicts a higher level of internalized stigma, and internalized stigma strongly negatively affects the mother's perception and interpretation of the child's behavioral problems. This cognitive-emotional pattern causes the mother to attribute the child's behaviors more to her own disability, experience more negative emotions, and therefore disrupt their parenting style; this path exacerbates the child's EBDs. The present study shows that MSE affects the child's emotional adjustment in adolescence through two main paths. First, mothers with high self-esteem usually have a greater sense of self-efficacy in the role of mother, as a result, they show warm, accepting, and supportive behavior in their interactions with their adolescent. This relationship style strengthens the child's sense of emotional security, worth, and self-efficacy and prevents the occurrence of aggressive behaviors, anxiety, or depression. Second, mothers with low self-esteem have more difficulty regulating emotions and resolving conflicts and may unintentionally transmit maladaptive communication patterns (such as excessive criticism, controlling, or emotional withdrawal) to their adolescents. Such an environment leads to the formation of persistent negative emotions and maladaptive behaviors in adolescents. In other words, MSE can act as a protective factor against adolescent EBDs because, in the context of healthy mother-child relationships, emotion regulation, positive self-concept, and a sense of psychological security are strengthened in adolescents.
Based on the results of the present study, it was determined that mother's mentalization (MM) has a direct and significant effect on adolescent emotional-behavioral disorders; in such a way that with increasing MM, the amount of internalizing and externalizing problems in adolescents decreases. The findings of this study are consistent with the results of some previous studies in this field. Nieto-Retuerto et al. (
23) in an extensive meta-analysis on caregivers of children up to 18 years of age showed that a high level of parental mentalization is associated with a decrease in externalizing problems in children, which confirms that the ability of the parent to understand their own and the child's mental and emotional states has a protective role against the occurrence of maladaptive behaviors. They reported that the mother's pre-mentalization state (meaning crude and ineffective ways of understanding their own and others' minds) has a positive and significant relationship with children's externalizing problems. Darabi et al. reported that MM, which refers to crude and ineffective ways of perceiving one’s own and others’ minds, is positively and significantly related to EXTPs (
24). In line with these results, Karimi et al.’s study on the effectiveness of a mentalization-based treatment model on family relationships and self-harm behavior in adolescent girls showed that improvements in mentalization and the quality of family relationships led to a reduction in self-harm behaviors in adolescents (
25).
The findings of this study showed that MSE has a direct and significant effect on their emotional regulation; as MSE increases, their emotional regulation also increases. From the perspective of the mentalization approach, MSE, as a source of emotional adequacy, increases the capacity for emotion regulation by accurately representing emotional states and managing daily stresses and helps strengthen the mother-child relationship. In line with the findings of the present study, Li et al. showed that low self-esteem resulting from childhood trauma significantly exacerbates mental health problems in adulthood, including depression and anxiety in adulthood, and that traumatic childhood experiences have a lasting impact on the mental health of the individual as well as the mental health of their children (
26). Wells et al. reported that low self-esteem and deficits in emotion recognition are risk factors for antisocial behaviors (
27). Self-esteem and emotion recognition were positively correlated, and both were inversely associated with the severity of behavioral problems and independently predicted problematic behaviors (
28). Self-esteem is a key psychological factor that mediates the relationship between early trauma and subsequent emotional problems. Furthermore, emotion regulation strategies influence this process, such that when an individual's emotion regulation is greater, the negative impact of trauma on self-esteem is exacerbated, leading to worse mental health outcomes (
27).
According to the findings of the present study, MSE has a direct and significant effect on Mother's emotional instability (MEI); as MSE increases, MEI decreases. In this regard, Mohagheghi et al. reported that in patients with emotional instability, self-esteem is usually low and unstable and is accompanied by severe emotional fluctuations (
29). The findings of the study by Ghazanfari and Ghadampour showed that the lower a person's self-esteem, the greater the likelihood of having such a disorder. Because people with low self-esteem usually have more limited relationships, it causes instability in the person's behavior and feelings and the person cannot achieve integration. In this regard, emotion regulation as a variable that is necessary for establishing balance and psychological stability in the person plays a decisive role (
30).
The results obtained in the present study showed that increasing the level of MM is associated with improving mothers' ability in Mother's emotional regulation (MER) and weakness in the mentalization process can lead to difficulty in regulating emotions. Emotional mentalization overlaps with emotion regulation and more precisely with emotional integration and construction. From a theoretical perspective, mentalization, as the capacity to understand and interpret the mental states of oneself and others, plays a fundamental role in the development of emotion regulation. Emotional mentalization is based on recognizing what emotions an individual experiences in the past and present and is based on how these experiences affect the individual's interpretations of their own and others' mental states. The ability to mentalize helps an individual to identify, recognize, and regulate their emotions in complex emotional situations (
31,
32). Heatherton reported that mentalization is one of the most important foundations for the formation and development of emotional self-regulation. In fact, by understanding one's own and others' internal states, one achieves a more meaningful interpretation of emotional experiences and gains greater control over the intensity and direction of one's reactions (
33).
The findings of the present study showed that increasing the level of MM ability leads to a decrease in MEI. In general, emotional instability, as one of the important symptoms of mental disorders, can occur when the mind misinterprets the experience of oneself and others, to the extent that a mental image of others is inferred from the individual's experience of oneself. In this regard, some studies have emphasized the role of mentalizing capacity in relation to deficits in emotion regulation (
33,
34).
Based on the findings of this study, it was found that higher MSE leads to improved mothers’ ability to regulate emotions, which in turn leads to a reduced incidence of EBDs in adolescents. This finding is consistent with the results of some similar studies, including Fernandez et al. (
21), Edmondson et al. (
35), Sarfika et al. (
36), and Shabani and Nemattavousi (
37).
In addition, the findings showed that MEI has a mediating role for MSE as well as EBDs related to adolescents. The results also showed that MER and MEI have a mediating role for MM and emotional-behavioral disorders in adolescents. The first step in the mother-child relationship is the mother's awareness of her own mental and emotional states and curiosity about them. A mother who is able to better understand her feelings and thoughts can regulate her emotional reactions more effectively and, as a result, improve the quality of interaction with her child. Since maternal emotions have a significant impact on adolescent emotions and behaviors, this ability plays an important role in adolescent emotional-behavioral adjustment. Numerous studies have confirmed the importance of the quality of parent-adolescent relationships and have shown that low-quality relationships are associated with outcomes such as depression, withdrawal, aggression, and delinquency in adolescents (
21,
35-
37).
5.1. Limitations
The large number of questionnaires to complete was one of the limitations of the present study, which sometimes caused difficulty and confusion for the study participants. In addition, the low literacy level of some mothers led to difficulty understanding some of the questionnaire items. In addition, due to the large number of study participants, coordinating with some of them was time-consuming for the authors of this study.
5.2. Conclusions
Based on the findings of this study, it can be concluded that maternal mentalization (MM) can play an effective protective role against adolescent emotional-behavioral disorders (EBDs) when it is accompanied by relative emotional stability. Maternal emotional instability (MEI) can not only weaken the practical function of their mentalization, but also, as a mediating variable, create a path of mentalization's effect on adolescents' internalized and externalized problems. The findings of this study emphasize the need to simultaneously pay attention to strengthening mentalization and improving mothers' emotion regulation in preventive and therapeutic interventions.