In order to explain the similarities and differences in results, it can be said that mental health findings showed a significant difference between the two groups, i.e., the mothers of autistic children and mothers of normal children. It is shown that mothers of autistic children enjoy lower mental health than the mothers of normal children. The process of giving birth to a child is enjoyable for the parents, but as soon as the parents become aware that their child is disabled, all wishes and hopes turn into despair, and then problems begin.
A mother’s encounter with her disabled child disrupts and destroys her normal, and she has to put up with the different types of stress such as the child’s stereotypes, language problems, and lack of self-care skills. This is why there is a higher rate of mental disorders in mothers of autistic children compared with the mothers of normal children. Overall, these conditions can lead to isolation and lack of interest in establishing a relationship with the environment, as well as low self-esteem and worthlessness in the mother, which, in turn, can result in depression (
23). However, Malekpour (
24) also showed that depression was one of the most common reactions of parents of mentally retarded children.
Stress-related findings showed a significant difference between the two groups of mothers. It means that mothers of autistic children experience far more stress than mothers of normal children. These findings are in line with the findings in the study by Malekpour (
24). It can be said that mothers of autistic children face higher levels of recurrent stress and more severe psychotic symptoms compared to parents of normal children or even those who have other mental/physical conditions (
25). One of the main sources of stress for parents of children with autism is the child’s characteristics such as verbal problems, cognitive instabilities, behavioral problems, inadaptability, and severity of these disabilities (
26). Mothers of autistic children consistently report high levels of psychological distress, including parental stress, symptoms of depression, and social isolation (
27).
Findings related to task-oriented, excitement-oriented, and avoidance-oriented coping strategies between the mothers of autistic children and mothers of normal children showed a significant difference purporting to the fact that mothers of autistic children employ fewer task-oriented coping strategies compared to mothers with normal children (
28). Mothers of autistic children follow more emotion-oriented and avoidance coping strategies than the other group. According to Gupta (
29), parents of autistic children are less likely to be seen in family and friends’ gatherings because of their children’s obvious disabilities, so they enjoy less support from their friends and families.
Every study has limitations, and some of the most important limitations of the present study are as follows: Since the instruments used in this study were self-assessment questionnaires, their limitations should be considered. Since the present study was performed on mothers of autistic children and mothers of normal children in Ahvaz, so caution should be exercised in generalizing the results to other cases. The present study is a cross-sectional study, and therefore, it is difficult to generalize to cause-effect studies.
We can use the findings of this study in clinical situations to help mothers with autistic children to reduce their stress, so they can control their lives better with less stress and this way, the quality of their lives will be higher.
5.1. Conclusions
The results of this study are in line with other similar studies. Besides, as the results showed, mothers of normal children were significantly different from mothers of autistic children in using avoidance-oriented coping styles. Avoidance style describes behavioral efforts to escape or evade a problem. Excitement-oriented coping styles are less useful methods that do not work well in reducing stress and sometimes backfire.
The task-oriented strategy requires information about the tense situation and its possible consequences. Mothers of normal children who use this strategy try to prioritize their activities according to their importance and focus on time management to complete the activities. The excitement-oriented strategy also requires new ways to control the emotions and try to be hopeful in case of facing stressful situations. Mothers of autistic children, who use this strategy while controlling their emotions, may show anger or frustration outbursts. Also, avoidance strategies require denying or minimizing stressful situations. The task-oriented strategy is the most effective when mothers of autistic children can logically classify the existing stressful situations, but if such mothers are unable to anticipate stressful situations and adopt solutions; an excitement-oriented strategy proves to be more effective, as reported by (
29).
It is suggested that longitudinal research should be conducted in the future to find the possible causal-effect relationship of the variables under the study. The comparison between the findings of this study with other findings leads to a better understanding of the phenomena under the study. Training courses should be held for mothers to improve mental health and reduce anxiety, stress management, and stress reduction. Parents should get acquainted with a variety of coping strategies and their negative and positive consequences so that they can use these strategies more properly.