The results of the present study indicated a negative, direct correlation between attachment styles and difficulties in emotion regulation. In this respect, our findings are in line with the results of previous studies (
9,
14,
17). Many individuals could easily deal with stress due to proper emotional relations with their parents during adolescence. Such an emotional relationship with parents helps adolescents learn to manage extreme emotions and reduce emotional distress. In contrast, those with unfavorable emotional relations with their parents and those whose parents (one of both) are physically and emotionally unavailable often have negative emotional experiences. Children’s expectations of the sensitivity, availability, and responsiveness of primary caregivers lead to different levels of attachment to the caregiver during infancy, through which children gradually internalize the behavioral patterns of themselves and others (
29).
The findings of the current research demonstrated a positive, direct correlation between childhood trauma and difficulties in emotion regulation, which is consistent with the results of previous studies (
19-
21). It seems that an experience of severe trauma increases impulsivity, which reduces the brain’s capacity for response inhibition and controlling negative emotions, thereby increasing the risk of self-harming behaviors (
19). Difficulties in emotion regulation are caused by several factors, such as genetic factors and childhood damages. Childhood emotional abuse is associated with emotion regulation problems, the intention to adopt incompatible emotion regulation strategies (e.g., alcohol consumption and drug abuse), and emotional breakdown (
30). Evidence also suggests that childhood trauma has a debilitative effect on the brain development of children and adolescents; emotional disorders are one of the most likely outcomes in such cases. Furthermore, childhood abuse and neglect might result in chronic disabilities against emotional fluctuations, ultimately increasing the risk of emotional disorders such as depression and suicidal intentions (
19). Children and adolescents who are exposed to different forms of disturbing experiences might have feelings such as helplessness and disability, confusion and instability, as well as difficulties in emotional self-regulation (
31). Therefore, turning to self-harm may be a strategy in these cases to avoid unpleasant emotional states immediately.
Our findings indicated a positive, direct correlation between difficulties in emotion regulation and self-harming behaviors, which is congruent with the results of previous studies (
4,
6). Difficulty in the regulation of one’s emotions increases the probability of high-risk thoughts, including suicidal ideation. Notably, the components of difficulty in impulse control and limited access to emotion regulation strategies could most significantly predict suicidal thoughts in our subjects. In other words, more difficulties in impulse control and more limited access to emotion regulation strategies increase the risk of suicidal thoughts. Individuals often exhibit self-harming behaviors and suicidal attempts as a means to escape unbearable and negative emotional experiences. Those with self-harming behaviors experience higher emotion dysregulation compared to others. With a consistent lack of self-reported emotional regulation by individuals, self-harming behaviors are also expected to increase (
7).
In the present study, self-harming behaviors were considered an attempt to express, objectify, or manage negative emotional states. However, these behaviors often persist due to their impact on the reduction of negative emotions or creating positive states and liberation from emotionlessness and emotional numbness (
32). Regarding the role of self-harm in emotion regulation as an attention allocation strategy, such behaviors deviate one’s attention from disruptive emotional stimuli and lead to carelessness, distraction, and the repression and avoidance of unpleasant emotional states, ultimately encouraging self-harming behaviors.
The results of the present study indicated a negative correlation between attachment styles and self-harming behaviors considering the mediating role of difficulties in emotion regulation. In this regard, our findings are consistent with the results of previous studies (
9,
14,
16). Based on the viewpoints of attachment theorists such as Bowlby, child and adult psychological traumas stem from dysfunctional relationships between children and their caregivers, and attachment styles play a key role in the emergence of problematic behaviors. Accordingly, the optimal predictor of future self-harm behaviors is experiencing emotional neglect in childhood and a chaotic family environment (
33). Lack of a responsible caregiver and not meeting the demands of children during childhood lead to emotional distress. The child or adolescent becomes aggressive to protest, and since they cannot express their anger in any other way or get help, they turn to self-harming behaviors. Therefore, self-harm is a sign of internal tension that has a public and a private message (
34). Self-harming behaviors are a means to control extreme emotions that cannot be expressed verbally (
35).
The current research shows a positive correlation between childhood trauma and self-harming behaviors through the mediation of difficulties in emotion regulation, which is consistent with the results of previous studies (
19-
21). As mentioned earlier, childhood trauma has a debilitative effect on the brain development of children and adolescents; such an example is emotional disorders. Childhood abuse and neglect might also lead to chronic disabilities in dealing with emotional fluctuations, thereby increasing emotional disorders such as depression and suicidal intentions (
20). Emotional abuse and neglect are a form of emotional deprivation leading to depression, and major depressive disorder is significantly associated with suicidal ideation. Therefore, emotional, physical, and sexual abuse may trigger stress systems driven by the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis. Factors such as abandonment, inattention to primary needs, and physical harms in childhood act as a catalyst in adulthood, such that chronic and severe dysphoric, impulsive feelings in the form of self-destructive behaviors, suicide threats/attempts, disturbed interpersonal relationships, and extreme dependence may result from such disturbing experiences in early life.
5.1. Limitations of the Study
One of the main limitations of the present study was the use of self-report tools. Most adolescents may not be willing to respond to questions about self-harm and disturbing experiences. Therefore, it is suggested that other data collection methods (e.g., interviews) be used to collect data. Another limitation was the differences between the participants regarding their economic, social, and cultural status, as well as in population composition, and gender, which might have affected the results. Since the current research was only performed in Kermanshah, it is recommended that similar investigations be conducted in other cities with different social and cultural contexts as cultural and social backgrounds largely influence the relationship between parents and children.
5.2. Conclusions
According to the results, insecure attachment styles and an experience of childhood trauma made adolescents susceptible to self-harm through their negative effects on the emotional regulation of these individuals. Self-harm in adolescents is a response to childhood damages and mistreatments. From the perspective of the four-factor self-harming model (
1), self-harming behaviors in adolescents act as a ‘negative reinforcer’ in social situations. Adolescents engage in self-harming behaviors as a response to the experience of misbehaviors toward them during childhood to convey a message that cannot be expressed in any other way. The nature of self-harming behaviors is similar to that of paradoxical self-medication, which may be an emotionally liberating experience for the abused adolescent. In conclusion, it is recommended that emotion regulation be considered as a concept affecting the control and reduction of self-harming behaviors in adolescents. Self-harming behaviors could be minimized by improving emotion regulation in this population.