According to our results, sexual skills training with an eclectic approach could improve sexual function and its subscales such as sexual desire and stimulation in women. These findings are in line with the results of previous research. For example, Fahami et al. (
21) studied the effectiveness of sexual skills training with a cognitive approach in increasing sexual satisfaction in women and their results showed that sexual satisfaction in the experimental group increased after receiving sexual skills training compared to the control group. Eshghi et al. (
22) studied the effectiveness of cognitive-behavioral counseling in sexual desire in women. Their results showed that cognitive-behavioral counseling was effective in improving the total score of sexual desire and its behavioral, cognitive, emotional, and physical dimensions. Also, the results showed that the counseling was effective in improving sexual knowledge, sexual confidence, and sexual assertiveness.
In fact, sex is one of the natural human needs and the lack of proper attention to it can cause social corruption. Sexual issues have significant roles in life satisfaction among couples. It should be said that low sexual desire is one of the sexual disorders such as sexual desire disorder, orgasm, arousal, vaginismus, and sexual fear. The prevalence of low sexual desire disorder is 58.3% in women that causes many family and marital problems. Some authors express that 90% of sexual issues are related to low sexual desire that causes plenty of problems for family and society. Moreover, divorce can root in sexual dysfunction (
14,
23). Ziaee et al. (
24) and Mohammadi et al. (
25) showed that married women who used sexual skills training intervention for increasing marital satisfaction reported enhancement in their mental arousal and improvement in their sexual function. Other studies showed the effect of the behavioral approach on sexual problems and indicated that sexual training and information about sexual response cycle, anatomy, biology, and sexual techniques, changing negative sexual attitudes towards sexual issues, solving anxiety and sexual concerns, and increasing physical and verbal communication of couples are the basic principles of effective behavioral approaches in the treatment of sexual abnormalities (
26,
27).
The information obtained by researchers emphasizes the effectiveness of sexual training in sexual function. The explanation for these findings is that marital problems can be taken into consideration through training and based on the problem-solving model. In this way, unrealistic expectations of couples change, so their sexual function improves. It is worth noting that there are several possibilities for justifying the effectiveness of sexual skills training in improving sexual function in married women as follows:
Prescribed exercises for patients with poor sexual function are mechanical and physical exercises that can lead to complex psychological reactions in people. For example, Kegel practices in the one hand strengthen enjoyable reactions and on the other hand prevent unwanted sexual tension.
Patients were allowed to express their emotions freely over the training sessions that led to anxiety reduction and facilitated the emotions of each person in communication.
Using information obtained from sexual skills training based on an eclectic approach instead of using limited and inaccurate sexual information is another reason for the effectiveness of this intervention.
Other results of this study showed that sexual skills training with an eclectic approach was not significantly effective on lubrication and orgasm in women. These findings are not in line with the results of previous research. For example, Hallvorsen and Metz (
28) showed that relaxation training, hypnosis, mental guidance, group therapy, and special methods such as self-arouse, start-stop method, and systematic desensitization in sexual skills training with behavioral approach were successful treatments in treating poor sexual function. These methods had satisfactory outcomes in treating vaginismus, painful sexual intercourse, and orgasm disorders but had the lowest success in treating sexual desire disorder. Cognitive therapists acknowledge that cognitive processing is more important than physiological factors. Negative thinking about sexual activity makes symptoms severe and permanent. Therefore, the discovery of this negative indoctrination can help analyze sexual issues. Meston et al. (
29) in their study on determining the best therapy for treating orgasm disorder declared that sexual skills training with the cognitive-behavioral approach through cognitive restructuring techniques, methods of reducing stress such as relaxation, sexual information, sensate focus exercises, and systematic desensitization were the best and most common methods of treatment. This can be noted that lubrication in the vagina is a physiological process and although training can improve it over time, interventions such as using drugs and gels in the short term can facilitate the sexual relationship. Also, orgasm is a complex and multi-factor process in women. Intervention through training can be effective if combined with intervention methods such as massage and relaxation.
5.1. Conclusions
Generally, the results showed that sexual skill training with an eclectic approach significantly increased sexual function and its subscales such as sexual desire and stimulation compared to the control group. However, there was no significant difference between the two groups in lubrication and orgasm subscales. It can be concluded from the mentioned discussion that sexual issues are both personal and social. Hence, authorities should consider sexual issues as a health problem and necessary for people, especially for the youth, in Iran and make some arrangements through easy methods for training with the help of researchers. However, this study had some limitations similar to any other research, the most important of which are the failure to generalize the results to the opposite sex (men) and no further follow-up tests in the long-term period. Although the results of the study showed no difference between two groups in terms of lubrication and orgasm, it is suggested that future research uses other training methods such as cognitive-behavioral strategies training, like visualization, film, and video training, to raise the awareness and the level of sexual function in women.