Four main themes emerged in the data analysis process: effects of sex education, principles of sex education, content of sex education, and organizations related to sex education. In this paper, the main theme that has been presented is ‘effects of sex education’. Descriptions of other themes will be reported in subsequent manuscripts. The subthemes of ‘effects of sex education’ included: a, increased knowledge; b, normalization of sexual and reproductive issues; c, self-efficacy as advantages of sex education; d, tainted modesty, and e, Motive for initiating sexual behavior as disadvantages of sex education.
4.1. Advantages of Sex Education
Three themes emerged from the analysis as advantages of sex education: a, increased knowledge, b, normalization of sexual and reproductive issues, and c, self-efficacy.
4.1.1. Increased Knowledge
More than 2/3 of the participants believed that sex education could increase their knowledge and promote their understanding of sexual and reproductive health. Shabnam (29 years) (These names are pseudonyms) who received sex education stated that:
‘… I may have a sexual encounter and in this case, having sexual knowledge is better than being uninformed … having sexual knowledge provides an appropriate view regarding all aspects of such a sensitive issue.’ (FGD1)
A number of participants stated that they have been curious regarding sexuality-related knowledge. Zohreh (25 years old) who received sex education highlighted that:
‘During my adolescence, I was very curious about the relationship with my boyfriend. Sex education helped me have a better understanding about intimate and physical relationships.’(ind.inw)
Participants believed that sex education is an important means to gain knowledge, particularly compared to learning from parents or peers. Most participants (more than 90%) stated that they have learned sexuality from their peers while they believed that peers were not the right people to learn from. Furthermore, most participants believed that parents were not able to understand their sexual needs and therefore were not able to educate them or answer their sexuality-related questions.
4.1.2. Normalization of Sexual and Reproductive Issues
Approximately all participants reported there is a strong sensitivity around sexuality matters in Iran, as they could not speak, study, or search about sexuality. They regarded sex education as a means to overcome the disapprovals surrounding sexual matters. They believed that if sex education was provided, they would be able to accept sexuality as a natural phenomenon. Mandana (26 years) who had received sex education stated:
‘I remember that when one of my classmates had experienced her menstruation for the first time, it was very embarrassing for her. Then, one of our teachers explained it as a natural event. Afterward, the sensitivity of the topic was gone and talking about menstruation became normal for us.’ (ind.inw)
A devoted religious student (24 years) who has not received sex education stated:
‘You know, it [sex education] will help people to think that sexuality is natural and it is necessary for everyone… it [sexuality] should be accepted as a reality’ (FGD3)
Also Fatemeh (29 years) who has not received sex education reported her experience:
‘Before I entered the university, I believed that anything related to sexuality is dirty. After I was accepted to the university, I accidently found a book regarding sexual and reproductive health. The content of that book was very interesting for me. In fact, before reading that book, I was avoiding accepting sexual issues, but after getting information, I felt God has created sexual issues as a natural complementary aspect of human beings.’(ind.inw)
Overall, participants believed that if sex education was provided, the sensitivity surrounding sexuality would decline and people could speak openly about it.
4.1.3. Self-Efficacy
Most participants stated that sex education could protect them from risky sexual behaviors. They found themselves at a potential risk during their sexual activity because they lacked a sense of control to reject the sexual act or use a condom. Shirin (23 years), a single and sexually active girl, stated:
‘One year after our friendship, my boyfriend wanted me to have anal sex. I loved him and was not able to reject his request. At the same time as our relationship, our school provided some information about sexually transmitted infections. Afterwards, I was informed that unprotected anal sex was a risky sexual act and therefore I decided not to let him have anal sex with no protection.’ (ind.inw)
One of the important pathways for practicing safe sex is building self-efficacy. The importance of safe sex and condom use were pointed out by the participants; Mahasti, 24 years old, who has received sex education stated:
‘In my opinion, it is not time to say sexuality is dirty! It is better to say how to use the condom or suggest it to your partner. When I wanted to have sex with my first boyfriend, it was difficult for me to suggest using the condom to him. I thought if I suggest using condoms, he would think I have doubt about his health or I have a sexually transmitted infection; then, I preferred not to say anything about it.’ (ind.inw)
Participants explained that sex education might provide a situation for them to think about their sexual relationships before they have sexual encounters; therefore, they could make the best decision in this situation.
4.2. Disadvantages of Sex Education
4.2.1. Motive for Initiating Sexual Behavior
Some participants believed that sex education could operate as a sexual stimulus. A religious participant, Razieh (31 years), who has not received sex education, seemed to express this conservative objection well:
‘With providing sex education, books and classes will become a channel for people’s sexual gratification. Sex education is not like education of history or geography. We have sexual organs and with getting information, it is possible that we desire to stimulate ourselves…’ (FGD2).
Also, some participants believed that providing primary information about sexuality will stimulate individuals’ curiosity to search for more sexuality information. Soraya (27 years) stated that:
‘When a person is prone to initiate her sexual relationships, receiving sexual information will make her thirsty for more information and motivate her for initiating sexual relationship’ (FGD1).
These young women believed that they might initiate their sexual relationships if they receive sex education because they view sex education as a motivation for sexual awareness.
4.2.2. Tainted Modesty
The participants described sexual modesty as the inclusion of ethical and religious modalities in sexual behaviors. Several participants stated that sex education could destroy modesty. Nazila, 23 years old, is one of the participants who did not agree with sex education:
‘Providing sex education looks like giving out a license for immoral sexual behaviors; in fact, if we receive sex education, it is possible that we think premarital sexual behaviors are ethical phenomena and then haya (modesty) boundaries will be destroyed’ (FGD3).
Anis, 19 years old, stated that:
‘….you know, sexual modesty in Iran is completely related to premarital sexual abstinence, especially for women. People think if sex education is provided, sexual chaos will happen and people will not able to control themselves. Although, it could not be true for all people and all societies, what is obvious is that people feel more freedom and it could destroy sexual abstinence and modesty’ (ind.inw).
Some participants believed that one of bad effects of sex education could be tainting modesty, which may provide a justification for premarital sexual behaviors. They thought sex education might provide a license for avoiding abstinence and destroying modesty.