There was a significant difference between the two groups in all domains of early maladaptive schemas, with women with FOD having more schemas overall. The differences from highest to lowest were: (1) Disconnection and rejection; (2) impaired limits; (3) hypervigilance and inhibition; (4) other-directedness; and (5) impaired autonomy and performance. These results are similar to those of Oliveira and Nobre (
10), who determined that women with sexual dysfunction have significantly more early maladaptive schemas in the domains of impaired autonomy and performance, especially in the schemas of failure, dependence/incompetence, and vulnerability to harm or illness. There are also numerous psychological factors involved in female orgasmic disorders, including fear of rejection by a sexual partner, vaginal injury, hostility towards men, and guilty feelings about sexual impulses. For some women, orgasm means loss of control or aggressive, destructive, or violent behavior, and these fears can be constraints to stimulation or orgasm. Many women believe that sexual pleasure is not a natural right of respectable women (
1). This hypothesis proposes that these fears are due to schemas formed over the course of individual evolution, and the basic emotional needs of childhood have not been properly met. These needs include a secure attachment to others, freedom to express healthy needs and emotions, and the need for spontaneity. It appears that when schemas are formed unconditionally on the basis of unfulfilled needs, spontaneous action or free expression of the needs is suppressed after evolution. Unconditional schemas develop as cognitive, behavioral, and emotional patterns in adulthood, and these can affect the psychological aspects of the orgasmic disorder. However, memories and physical feelings are also part of the schema that when it is reactivated, these are enabled and can affect the physical aspect of the orgasmic disorder.
There was a significant difference between the two groups in terms of sexual self-esteem, with women without FOD having more sexual self-esteem than those with the disorder. The differences between the groups in the five subscales of sexual self-esteem from highest to lowest were adaptiveness, control, skill/experience, moral judgment, and attractiveness. Although research on the relationship between sexual self-esteem and orgasmic disorder has not yet been conducted in detail, some investigations have explored the impact of sexual self-esteem on sexual issues. The overall results are similar to those of this research and are discussed below.
There was a positive and significant relationship between sexual self-esteem and its components (i.e. skill/experience, attractiveness, control, moral judgment, and adaptiveness) and marital satisfaction (
27). Also, there was an increase in sexual function and satisfaction in people with low self-esteem (
14). It was reported that sexual self-esteem was a unique predictor of sexual communication in intimate relationships with higher overall self-esteem (
28). Damaged sexual self-esteem can be severe and disabling and reduce a person’s perspective of life gratification, the capacity to feel pleasure, the passion to connect with others, and the ability to communicate (
16). This hypothesis suggests that when exposed to or engaged in sexual activities, thoughts, and feelings, women with low sexual self-esteem perceive themselves as sexual creatures through a negative filter, and the behavioral representation of this negativity is sexual dysfunction and difficult sexual interaction. When exposed to or engaged in sexual activities, women with the orgasmic disorder often have negative perceptions of themselves, including a lack of skills regarding orgasm, minimal sexual attraction for a sex partner, inability to direct emotions during sexual intercourse, feeling the difference between moral standards and sexual desires, and a mismatch between her desires and what she exhibits. As a result of these negative perceptions, sexual cycle stages for these people are often difficult to determine.
Also, a significant difference was observed in the levels of anxiety between the groups and the level of anxiety of women with FOD was higher than that of the controls. The relationship between anxiety, sensitivity, and sexual dysfunction in women is a common genetic component (
17). This was similar to the results of a study, which associated the main factors of male sexual dysfunction with their views on sexual relations, conflict in relationships, and performance anxiety, and also found that the main causes of dysfunction for women include their attitudes toward sexual relationships, the quality of relationships, and performance anxiety (
29). These results indicate that performance anxiety plays a significant role in the creation and maintenance of sexual dysfunction in both genders. This hypothesis also asserted that women with orgasmic dysfunction who are exposed to sexual activities likely assume a relatively high level of deterioration and underestimate their ability to cope with the situation, both of which can influence personal sexual functionality (
29). It is notable that disorders in these individuals often trigger anxiety, and determining the type of causal relationship between the factors requires further longitudinal research.
Limitations of this study include not considering the purposive and convenient sampling methods, which means that generalizing the results should be done carefully and also not investigating factors related to spousal and sexual relations. Most participants in both groups had above the average education; therefore, generalizing the findings to people with less education should also be done with caution.
5.1. Research and Applied Recommendations
Only individual factors were investigated in this study; thus, spouse-related issues, different sampling methods in other populations, and controlling education levels should be explored in future research. It would also be helpful to compare the results of women and men with sexual dysfunction. Confirmation of the hypothesis that early maladaptive schemas in women with FOD are more likely than other women and evaluation and treatment protocols for the schemas would also be beneficial. In addition, the higher sexual self-esteem of women without FOD, as it is related to better education in late childhood and early adolescence (age of self-esteem formation) in both home and school, and their positive self-assessments and formation of sexual identity should be further explored. Furthermore, considering the differences in the degree of anxiety of the two groups, therapists and counselors should further investigate the effect of anxiety factors on people’s lives.