Mothers of children with a diagnosis of ADHD are not only psychologically affected but various aspects of their lives are also influenced. There is a complex interaction of environmental factors and psychological characteristics of parents with ADHD children. Some studies have shown that this group of mothers is not only depressed due to the burden of caring for their ADHD children, but ADHD behaviors also negatively impact other aspects of their lives, such as poor general health, low sense of competence and restrictiveness in parenting role (
10). Stress experienced by parents of ADHD children also comes from other demands placed on parents (
11). The difficulties faced by parents of ADHD children could adversely affect other aspects of individual, marital, and family functioning (
12) therefore studying such issues is essential.
The present preliminary study showed the components of marital satisfaction among a group of children with a diagnosis of ADHD in comparison with normal children. The study results showed that there was no significant difference between the marital satisfaction of mothers of children with ADHD and mothers of normal children. This study emphasized the role of other factors and variables associated with marital satisfaction among mothers or may show that ADHD cannot be the only factor associated with marital satisfaction among the mothers in this study. This study is in contrast with the results of some other studies, which showed that marital dissatisfaction among parents of children with ADHD were more common compared with parents of normal children (
13).
Some studies have shown that ADHD is related to marital disturbances (
14). In a study on the role of marital conflict and family emotional security on children’s physical and psycho-social health, researchers found that marital conflict and family emotional insecurity were related to the lack of children’s physical and psychosocial health. As expected, marital conflict inversely influences child emotional security showing the role of marital dissatisfaction in child insecure attachment to parents (
15).
On the other hand, this study is in agreement with a study from the USA, which showed that parents of children with ADHD did not have lower marital satisfaction compared with parents of normal children (
7). Parents’ marital satisfaction plays a crucial role in maintaining life balance and emotional setting. Marital satisfaction is an effective factor that helps a person deal with tensions, and allows better performance during one’s lifetime (
16).
Marital satisfaction among parents, especially mothers of children with ADHD, needs further research and should be compared with marital satisfaction of parents especially mothers of normal children in more representative samples and in longitudinal studies. Although no significant relationship was found between marital satisfaction and ADHD, yet the study findings showed that marital satisfaction was more common among employed mothers compared with housewives. This study is in contrast with an earlier study, which showed that housewives had more marital dissatisfaction compared with employed women (
17). In contrast, in another study, researchers found that employed women had higher marital satisfaction compared with housewives (
18).
This finding is likely to be the result of having a routine daily life with no special changes among housewives compared with employed women. Marital dissatisfaction among housewives may influence mothers’ behaviors with their children and also accelerate the misbehaviors of children with ADHD. The findings of this study need further research and should be explored in more representative samples.
One other important finding in our study was the relationship between monthly income and marital satisfaction. The study results showed that higher income among mothers was associated with more marital satisfaction. This issue is likely to be the result of higher economic facilities and convenience for these mothers, which could be associated with more comfort and emotional wellbeing. This study is consistent with the study of Frast (2002), who showed that in Tehran financial facilities were associated with more marital satisfaction among women (
19).
This subject still deserves further research and could be emphasized as a factor, which could influence mothers’ behaviors towards children with diagnosis of ADHD. If providing some financial support could result in more marital satisfaction among mothers, therefore, the relationship between this issue and decreasing ADHD symptoms among ADHD children should be studied by further longitudinal studies. In the present report, no relationship was found between marital satisfaction, ADHD and other studied variables such as age.
Although the present study was one of the few Persian studies that emphasized the roles of employment and family income on marital satisfaction among mothers of ADHD children in comparison with mothers of normal children yet there were several limitations. Several characteristics of this study suggest that these results should be interpreted with caution and argue for replication. First, the cross-sectional design of this study limits causal conclusions. Second, the numbers of samples in each group was limited and this issue limits generalizability of the study findings. Moreover, more longitudinal studies are still required to explore marital satisfaction and its components, which influence ADHD among children with diagnosis of this psychiatric disorder in comparison with normal children.
5.1. Conclusions
Research on families with ADHD children has primarily focused on ADHD rather than relational variables; these results point to the need to study the family systems of ADHD children in order to create a more sophisticated understanding of factors that contribute to or prevent the development of co-morbid difficulties such as income and employment.