The current study aimed at examining the prediction of marital satisfaction through attachment style and love story in two groups of males and females. The results of the first hypothesis analyzed by stepwise regression method, showed that 49% of marital satisfaction variance in males were determined by dominance, submission, and avoidant attachment style components. In addition, according to the results of stepwise regression analysis 78% of marital satisfaction variance in females was determined by avoidant and anxious attachment components, love story components of popular, dominance, submission, and pleasure and entertainment.
The inverse and significant relationship between marital satisfaction and avoidant and anxious styles and the predicting role of these variables for marital satisfaction were aligned with the results of many studies (
10,
14,
33,
34). The results of some studies showed that mothers and fathers who reporting more anxious attachment, had less satisfaction in their marital relationships. Therefore, anxious attachment style can significantly predict marital dissatisfaction in couples' marital relationships when they become parents.
The ones that were less secure, whether anxious or avoidant, or both, generally reported less satisfaction in their interactions (
12). Spouses with both attachment styles were anxious, had a very poor performance, and were involved in many emotional distresses (
7,
18,
20,
35). Results of another study indicated that in couples that husband and wife had the same attachment style, in other words both of them were secure or avoidant or ambivalent, their marital satisfaction was higher than those of the couples with different attachment styles. Among different attachment styles, the lowest marital satisfaction belonged to the couples that one of them had avoidant attachment style and the other had ambivalent attachment style (
3,
6,
11,
12,
33-
36). Studies also showed that people with secure attachment believed that they deserved love and they also felt intimacy and comfort; but people with insecure attachment tended to experience lower levels of trust, satisfaction, intimacy, and stability in their romantic relationships (
12,
14,
15,
33). The relationship between anxious attachment style and marital satisfaction can be determined by the fact that such people are not certain about other people's love and are not sure whether they are worthy to be loved or supported; this situation accompanied by suspicion and fear leads to distrust following irritant feelings and jealousy and their relationships are often accompanied by the anxiety about losing the beloved person (
17,
21,
34,
35). It is obvious that this perpetual feeling of fear of being rejected together with low self-esteem and subsequent mistrust and irritant feelings cause the ultimate dissatisfaction in couples, and in the current study there was also a negative and significant relationship between the two variables. Furthermore, to justify the relationship between avoidant attachment style and marital satisfaction, it can be also said that avoidant insecure individuals can hardly establish intimate relationships with others; they highly rely on themselves and if anybody wants to be very close to them, they become upset; they cannot trust their spouses and they suppress or hide their emotions (
5,
11,
34,
36). Obviously, the traits such as mistrust and suppressing emotions are consistent with the dissatisfaction of the relationship, and the current study also reported this conclusion.
The results of relationships between marital satisfaction and love story showed that for males the relationship between marital relationship and popular and dominance and entertainment traits was positive and significant; the relationship between marital satisfaction and dominance was negative and significant; and the relationship between marital satisfaction and pleasure was not significant.
In females, there was a positive and significant relationship between marital satisfaction and popular trait, and a negative and significant relationship between marital satisfaction and dominance and submission and pleasure; there was also no significant relationship between marital satisfaction and entertainment.
In the case of dominance love story variable, the current study findings were consistent with those of some other studies on females and not consistent with those of males. Some researchers showed a negative significant relationship between marital satisfaction and dominance love story (
24,
37); in another research there was a negative significant relationship between entertainment, dominance, and submission love stories and satisfaction (
24,
26). None of these stories had a positive significant relationship with marital satisfaction, in other words, the stories by themselves had no positive relationship with marital satisfaction, but when both spouses had the same story, due to the similarity of their stories, their satisfaction with their relationship was higher. In the study on the relationship between dominance love story and marital satisfaction, it can be said that according to the definition of this love story, the most important features of these stories were supremacy, power, and taking advantage of one partner from the other one. In such stories, the rules of relationship between spouses is defined and determined by one person. A person with such a story looks at his/her partner as a person whose role is merely to meet his/her needs. It is obvious that when one of the spouses is going to seize power and control over marital life as well as wishes to decide on all affairs of life on his/her own, it stimulates dissatisfaction of the other partner, particularly when this person builds up inconsistency and dissatisfaction, conflict and dissatisfaction are subsequently revealed throughout the life of this couple. But in males, since based on their gender role they tend to take control, power, and general decision making by their own, dominance love story is not necessarily accompanied with low marital satisfaction; thereby, the results of the current study also revealed a positive significant relationship between this type of love story and marital satisfaction for males; particularly if the story of their spouses was submission (complementary to dominance).
A study showed a positive significant relationship between marital satisfaction and popular love story. In this case, it can be said that based on the definition, in such stories the relationships of spouses is accompanied by cooperation and such stories have positive relationship with marital satisfaction. In the current study, since the couples of this story had cooperation and mutual understanding, they reported higher marital satisfaction.
In case of the relationship between dominance love stories, the findings of the current study were consistent with those of the studies that revealed a negative significant relationship between dominance love story and marital satisfaction (
12,
15,
19,
30,
38). What can be said about the relationship of submission love story and marital satisfaction is that in such stories, there is inequality of roles; the couples with such stories tend to obey their spouses and avoid argument. Such people refuse to involve in useful and constructive conversations, and accordingly fail to establish an intimate relationship. It is clear that one of the spouses has no will, and after a while becomes tired and bored of being under the control of his/her counterpart, thus they do not attain a satisfied, deep, and real relationship.
Regarding the relationship between entertainment love story and marital satisfaction, the results of males group were inconsistent with the results of the studies that reported a negative significant relationship between marital satisfaction and entertainment love story (
35,
36). The relationship between entertainment love story and marital satisfaction is examined in a way that by definition, the couples with such stories look at their relationships as entertainment and fun, their relationships are superficial and there is emotional gap between spouses; therefore, they do not achieve an intimate, deep, and real relationship. But in the current study and given the dominant culture, it seems that the couples with entertainment type love stories, did not report more marital dissatisfaction since they do not take life more serious than it is and probably do not have absolute idealized view toward life and take it easy.
In case of negative relationship between pleasure love story and marital satisfaction for females it can be said that according to the definition of this love story, the importance and prominence of physical and sexual pleasure are remarkable (
35,
38,
39). It is evident that when a person is valued only in the domain of sexuality and look and probably two other sides of the Sternberg triangular theory of love (commitment and intimacy) are ignored, the person is disappointed with this relationship, which subsequently reveals dissatisfaction and conflict and low scores in marital satisfaction.
5.1. Conclusion
The variety of love story from Sternberg's view point among different people and unique features of each story that reveals a person's world-view and is closely associated to his/her life, and on the other hand, the accompaniment of love story with attachment styles show the type of emotional connection of people in their intimate relationships, and it seems that combination and accompaniment of these two variables could be a good predictor for the degree of couples' marital satisfaction and even for the ones on the verge of marriage.
In the process of therapy, the investigation of the attachment style and love story of couples can help to diagnose problems, and it is used in therapeutic interventions. Therefore, when couples are aware of their attachment styles and love stories and those of their partners, they can understand the roots of some problems and better solve them. Based on unmet attachment needs, many researchers reported the effectiveness of therapeutic interventions to increase marital satisfaction (
10,
40-
43).
Due to the employment of self-report data and not verifying the results with other sources of data collection such as interviews; exhaustion resulted from long questions and generalization of obtained results to other areas according to dominant conditions on the island and its residents were among limitations of the current study.
Regarding the nature of love story in different people, it is suggested that the relationship between this variable with other structures related to marital relationships such as marital conflict, marital burnout, quality of life, etc. also to be investigated in future studies; moreover, the results of the current study and other similar studies in premarital education, marital life enrichment coaching as well as clinics and health centers could be employed to evaluate the source of conflicts in couples for the ones that refer such places for treatment.