| The person | | |
| Body image | I feel bloated because of taking corticosteroids, I have to eat less | Modifying lifestyle by including sports that suit his conditions |
| Development | I am good at sewing dolls, this is how I earned my income before I got married. | She only cares about the financial aspect of the skill and not the entertainment aspect for him |
| Personal space | After the transplant, I got relief from dialysis, but I have to take a series of medicines every day, it's a torture, I don't know when it will end | Imposing compliance with the treatment regimen throughout life (drug non-compliance) |
| Learning | Because of the medicines I take, my doctor told me to pay attention to my food, during pregnancy I go to a nutritionist and follow my own diet. | She needs to modify her lifestyle regardless of pregnancy (the turning point of her life is pregnancy). |
| Time | Whenever I look at the calendar, only the ovulation date appears. | Ovulation-enclosed life time |
| Self | Thank God, my kidneys are fine, my eggs are healthy, I feel good about my life, but my life will be complete when the baby comes. | She does not have full knowledge of the risk factors in kidney failure |
| Perception | Many people had my problems and got pregnant. We have a Telegram group. Last time, a woman with my conditions got pregnant with twins with IVF. I can, there is no need for surrogacy. | She does not have a correct understanding of pregnancy and the special care of a pregnant mother with a transplanted kidney. |
| Between person | | |
| Role complexity | It has the main roles of wife, sister, daughter-in-law. I do not complete my duties. I sleep more during the day... | It has many roles that it does not play well. |
| Interaction | People around me say hi to my husband for surrogacy even though I can have a child. | Waiting for the approval of others in terms of fertility |
| Relationship | I have a good relationship with all my family and friends, I like to be alone more than in a group. | social anxiety |
| Transaction | I stand up to the pressure of people around me, of course, without fighting and I told everyone that I can do it myself, my husband trusts me. | Resistance to other fertility methods |
| Stress | Every day and every minute I am thinking about pregnancy... I am expecting every month and after my period I cry for three days and nights every month... I am in pure despair. And then I struggle a lot with myself and give myself hope for the next month. This is my life every month. | Distress in the life cycle |
| Compatibility | My husband always gives me hope, people from far and near always have children after several years, I ask and this makes me feel better. | Keeping hope alive through interactions with peers. |
| Social | | |
| Decision making challenges | She recounts complex decisions about her reproductive options, including the potential risks and consequences of pregnancy on her transplanted kidney. | Her highest priority is pregnancy, pregnancy at any cost, even at the cost of her life. |
| Location | He lives with his wife in a one-bedroom villa in a nice area of town. | They have a suitable and high status. |
| The power | I tolerate my pain in any situation and I don't need help from others, not even my wife. | To manage the disease and follow up on medical matters, the cooperation of the wife is required. |
| Control | I consulted six fertility specialists and one urologist. | Although the treatment method of each specialist is for IVF, but every unsuccessful IVF patient turns to another specialist. |
| Authority | The head of my house and my husband are very satisfied | Due to his pale and inactive presence in the house, he has good authority. |
| Organize | Before every IVF, I show my husband the messages of women like me who had a successful pregnancy to give his consent to try again. My wife's objection is not because of the cost, but because of my health concerns. | Making her husband willing to re-accept and ignore the risk factors |