Study participants’ lived experiences of PPC were grouped into three main themes including stress management, empathetic behavior, and all-embracing outlook. These themes reflected the meaning of PPC provided by our participating nurses to patients with cancer. The constitutive pattern of the study was ‘palliative care as the driving force for providing psychological comfort to patients with cancer’. The study themes and the participants’ quotations are explained below.
4.1. Stress Management
Whenever our participants felt that their patients needed psychological help, they provided them with verbal counseling.
We had a young patient who was extremely worried about her university entrance exam. She wanted to study law. She constantly said, “If I’m going to die, I would like to enter university before it. I told her, “You shouldn’t feel incapable. You need to resist. You should defeat the disease” (Participant 4).
Besides verbal counseling, our participants also employed the humor technique for alleviating patients’ stress.
Patients come here with great fear and horror of cancer and chemotherapy. We talk to them, calm them down, and give them psychological comfort. We alleviate their fear of the disease. I use humor and have found that it reduces patients’ fear (P9).
Moreover, our participating nurses supplemented their verbal counseling with practical approaches in order to manage patients’ stress.
We had a patient who was going to undergo a surgery and had great fear and anxiety over it. To relieve her fear, I showed her other patients who had recently undergone surgery. I even told her that although these patients’ surgeries had been more extensive than hers, they weren’t afraid. On the day of surgery, she voluntarily agreed to go to the operation room while I thought that she would have difficulties in accepting surgery (P10).
Relaxation, guided imagery, and physical exercise were the other strategies which our participants employed to relieve patients’ stress.
Sometimes, I take a number of patients to the hospital yard and encourage them to do physical exercise. Moreover, whenever possible, we use relaxation techniques for them. I have found these techniques useful for relieving patients’ stress (P2).
Sometimes, I ask patients to remember a beautiful day from their past; for example, a day when they were at the seashore or something like this (P7)
4.2. Empathetic Behavior
Our participants had found empathetic behavior as a key aspect of PPC. Accordingly, they empathized with patients through listening to them.
Sometimes, when I greet patients, they start voicing their grievances and continue until they reach a point where they apologize for wasting my time and bothering me. Patients are looking for an ear to listen to them and calm them. I have found listening to patients’ talks to be effective in calming them. Sometimes patients thank us for listening to and empathizing with them. When nurses strive to fulfill such needs of patients, they are actually providing palliative care (P1).
According to our nurses, a key aspect of empathizing with patients was to have shared feelings with them. Sometimes, they cried concurrently with patients and found it useful for relieving patients’ stress.
Sometimes, administrating a drug takes me a great deal of time because some patients start expressing their grievance during drug administration and I cry with them. I don’t avoid crying with patients. I have experienced that this technique calms patients (P6).
Moreover, our participants placed themselves in patients’ shoes and considered them as their own family members.
There was a patient who I noticed nobody understood. She had lost her hair subsequent to chemotherapy. I [usually] strive to understand patients. I consider them as my own sister, father, mother, or my own relatives (P5).
4.3. All-Embracing Outlook
The third main theme of the study was all-embracing outlook which denoted that by providing palliative care, nurses pay attention to all aspects of patients’ health. Our participants’ palliative care was not confined to a particular time or place and hence, it was not exclusively provided when patients were in hospital. In other words, the participating nurses strived to provide palliative care whenever they could.
When providing spiritual care, we pay attention to patient’s minds and bodies and all factors that might have affected them. We had a patient who had different cancer-related personal and familial problems. We helped her. We help patients in all situations (P8).
Even when patients are discharged from hospital, we take their phone number and pursue their health status, answer their questions, and guide them if they need re-hospitalization (P3).
Our participating nurses greatly emphasized the importance of having an all-embracing outlook when providing end-of-life care.
I try to pay attention to all aspects of cancer patients’ lives. For instance, improving a terminally-ill patient’s quality of life is important for me even if he/she is in his/her last day of his/her life. Accordingly, I do not neglect some aspects of patients’ lives and have a broad outlook on them (P11).
4.4. The Constitutive Pattern: Palliative Care as the Driving Force for Providing Psychological Comfort to Patients With cancer
Based on the participating nurses’ lived experiences, palliative care is an all-embracing care which incorporates empathy and stress management techniques. This type of care is a driving force for providing psychological comfort to patients with cancer. Nurses employ both verbal and non-verbal techniques as well as mental and physical activities for providing palliative care. The underpinnings of palliative care are accurate understanding of patients’ conditions, having a shared feeling with them, and empathizing with them. Palliative care is not restricted to a particular time or place. A key aspect of palliative care is that nurses continually strive for improving patient’s quality of life even if s/he is in the last day of her/his life. Palliative care as the driving force for providing psychological comfort to patients with cancer is the common pattern emerging from the themes.