Results of the qualitative part of the study were examined from different aspects. Major challenges emphasized by participants in the interviews were their limited information about the disease. For example, they were aware of the signs and symptoms of the disease. For example, they were aware of the signs and symptoms of the disease and they knew implications of the situation if they do not refer to thalassemia centers to follow up their disease. Some patients did not use deferoxamine and did not know the symptoms of not using the drug. Awareness of personal changes affects the themes of independence, role playing and adaptation of the individual. If people are aware of these changes, they can maintain their ability by implementing some strategies and make optimal use of their abilities (
39,
40). In a qualitative study, Sapountzi-Krepia concluded that patients with thalassemia and their families need information and support (
41). If patients are aware of their condition and disease, they can better understand the condition and health problems through empowerment. Empowerment improves quality of life of patients (
17). Regarding the need for adaptation to the disease, some participants in the study were referred to as "implementing measures and different ways to cope with the disease for a normal life". Indeed, they stated in such a way that they have been accustomed, either bad or good, with the disease developed from childhood. Patients without change in their appearance hid the disease from others, due to fear from others' pity and losing their friends. However, "the fear of deteriorating physical conditions in the future and the disease complications" worried them. Nevertheless, constructive adaptability can lead to a better management of programs and follow-up to achieve the objectives as well as better performance in the roles (
40). Quoted from Lau, Ansari argued that in most cases, patients are tired of iron overload treatment and are less inclined towards this treatment in puberty when they are in the peak of mental problems (
12). Support and increased knowledge of family members about self-care needs of patients with chronic diseases is the best source for supporting patients, strengthening their ability to adapt to existing conditions and maintaining their quality of life (
18). Some needs of families with chronic diseases include knowledge and practical skills for adapting to disease, dissatisfaction with lack of information, need for empathy and consultation with other families, and overcoming family’s isolation (
42). Increased attention to the diagnosis and treatment of psychological disorders can greatly improve the adaptability process (
3). Regarding "independent control of their disease", some adolescents are heavily dependent on their family because of too much attention, and need to be emphasized and remembered, besides referring to the family for drugs. If the family and the healthcare system staff allow adolescents to take the responsibility of self-care and maintaining independence, it would improve mental conditions of patients; also, they grow independently, compared to their healthy peers, because of their responsibility for their own works. Adolescents should be independent when visiting their physician, referring to blood transfusions, injecting or using iron chelating drugs, and even handling financial matters (
43). Some problems of adolescents with chronic diseases include fear of rejection, difficulty in communicating with peers, and fear of independence and concern for self-sufficiency (
44). Much attention to patients with the disease is a problem resulting in dependency on others and reduces their self-confidence (
45). Self-management means having the ability to target and prioritize tasks until achieving the goals explained in life and feeling of satisfaction and sense of empowerment resulting from satisfaction and sense of control (
40). Self-management is an active operational process driven by the patient (
46). Some participants stated, "I do not adhere to my medication regimen and diet. I eat whatever I like. Despite emphasis by physicians, I do not use Desferal because I'm tired of needles at all." Regarding the theme of "uncovering the identity and role playing", as said by some adolescents, attitude and behaviors of others have had an impact on the role and how to find social identity. Since the individual is involved in a chronic and lifelong disease, his or her condition can affect his or her mental image, so that personal identity and self-confidence may be affected (
44). Families of patients with thalassemia may hide their child’s disease from others or prevent him or her from establishing relationship with the community and peers, because they fear of isolation of their child from society or shame about their child's illness (
43). In addition, family assigns no task to them because of pity, while adolescents demanded a more active role in the family and society. In children with thalassemia, especially those with low hemoglobin in the blood, the disease affects social interaction and cognitive development and increases the tendency to isolation and loneliness (
40). Adolescents with thalassemia should have an active role in the family and society so that, as adults, they have the ability and sense of accepting community for their future communication (
43). Adolescents may both need help of parents and show a negative reaction to their help. Because of this contradiction and the constant reminder of their chronic disease, adolescents may feel to be different and be less fit than their peers (
8). Achieving satisfaction is a sign of power. People’s notion of performance and success achieved in their lives can lead to a sense of self-satisfaction (
40). Most people said that they have accustomed to the disease. They said, "We have no choice but to do this". The cases stated; "comparing themselves with others, being ashamed of themselves and the disease, and being the envy of healthy people." Patients must have a sense of control and satisfaction with their disease and living conditions, so that they can better manage the disease. In addition, as the results of the quantitative part confirm, the rate of disease control and satisfaction can increase with increasing age. Increased sense of control could be due to a greater understanding of the disease, and satisfaction could be due to adaptation with current conditions. The findings of the quantitative part including demographic data (
Table 1), score of each theme, total score of the questionnaire (
Table 2), and evaluation of the association of demographic data and each of the themes (
Table 3) are presented. If participants' scores were above the average, it was considered as desirable empowerment. The scores showed that answers to the questionnaire were moderate. Comparison of the entire questionnaire and demographic data only showed a significant correlation with age. The answers of patients represent a moderate status on the themes of "awareness of personal changes", "adaptation", "maintaining independence and self-management", "control and satisfaction" and "uncovering the identity and role playing". Scores from the "awareness of personal changes" part were not statistically significant compared to demographic data. This contrast with the qualitative part can be due to the small sample size of the quantitative part. Regarding the theme of "adaptation", demographic data showed an inverse association (-0.019) with age at diagnosis, and a direct association with maternal education (0.05). This means that younger age at diagnosis and more maternal education lead to more adaptation of patient. Only age had a statistically significant association in the three themes of "maintaining independence and self-management", "uncovering the identity and role playing", and "sense of control and satisfaction". The above themes ("maintaining independence and self-management", "sense of control and satisfaction", and "uncovering the identity and role playing") can increase with increasing age of the patient. Tol et al, performed a study on patients with diabetes and showed that those with higher levels of education and better understanding of the disease can more adopt self-management behaviors (
16). Although in our study, education had no significant correlation in the quantitative part, it was clear in the interviews that people with higher level of understanding and education had a better self-management. This difference may be due to the use of different evaluation tools, or the disease type in the two studies. The non-significant nature of the study parts could be due to the small sample size of the quantitative part. Although, according to
Table 2, the awareness of personal changes obtained satisfactory scores, analysis of the qualitative part of the study showed that individuals had no profound information about the cause of disease complications and consequences of not following the treatment, which is perhaps a reason for unwillingness to follow-up the treatment. Although the theme of "need for adaptation" had a moderate score in the quantitative part, the qualitative findings showed that over the years, patients were able to have a normal life using different methods and solutions to the disease. In addition, fear of deteriorating the patient's physical condition affected the adaptability of patients. Regarding the theme of "maintaining independence and self-management in adolescents and youths with thalassemia major", although they need independence and self-management, the patients gained a high score on the need for independence, for attitude, in the quantitative part of the study. However, in detailed insight analysis of the qualitative part, the role of health problems and financial problems caused by suitable job was clear. Due to age and influence of peer group pressure, adolescents and youths tend to perform the treatment process independently. However, due to limitations of the disease and physical conditions, evolution of independence and self-management had been faced with problems, which consequently created some stress. Lack of suitable job and salary opportunities was a crisis, especially for boys. In addition, the scores were reported to be at normal level on the theme of "uncovering the identity and role playing ". However, analysis of the qualitative part found that patients need to be treated like everyone else and to have an active role in family and community. Regarding the theme of "control and satisfaction", although the scores were higher than the average, it was found that they were satisfied by the questions related to current processes, but they did not answer questions about the future. The study results showed that people have poor information about their disease. Over the years, patients were able to have a normal life using different methods and solutions to the disease. However, fear of deteriorating the patient's physical condition was clear. Due to the patient's physical condition, financial problems due to not having a suitable job were observed in patients, especially boys. It is better for patients with major thalassemia to play an active role and treated like other children in their family. In case of providing good treatment conditions, and if patients are justified about the importance of follow-up, they can surely complete the process of gaining independence. Finally, given the importance of self-management and mental conditions of these patients in critical years of adolescence and youth, it would be essential to make educational interventions appropriate to their educational needs in the obtained dimensions and to modify self-management patterns in these patients.