Data analysis revealed 30 subcategories, eight categories, and four themes. The themes included the nurses’ close relationship with cancer patients as a double-edged sword, curvy and sinusoidal professional communication for oncology nurses, relationship with an opposite-gender patient as a missing factor in nursing care, and marginalization of relationships during the coronavirus pandemic.
Table 1 displays the demographic characteristics of the participants, and
Table 2 demonstrates the categories and themes extracted.
| Characteristics Oncology Nurses (N= 18) | Values |
|---|
| Age (y), average (range) | 34.66 (25 - 45) |
| Years of oncology nursing experience, average (range) | 8 (2 - 15) |
| Gender, No. (%) | |
| Female | 15 (83.3) |
| Male | 3 (16.7) |
| Marital status, No. (%) | |
| Married | 14 (77.8) |
| Single | 4 (22.2) |
| Role, No. (%) | |
| Nurse | 14 (77.8) |
| Head Nurse | 4 (22.2) |
| Education level, No. (%) | |
| BScN | 17 (94.4) |
| MScN | 1 (5.6) |
| Themes | Categories |
|---|
| Nurses’ close relationship with cancer patients as a double-edged sword | The formation of a close relationship between nurses and patients |
| Behavioral abnormalities in patient-nurse communications |
| Curvy and sinusoidal professional communication for oncology nurses | Efficient professional communications |
| Professional communication threats |
| Relationship with an opposite-gender patient as a missing factor in nursing care | Male oncology nurses’ communication challenges |
| Patients’ more trust in the same-gender nurses |
| Marginalization of relationships during the coronavirus pandemic | Weakening of communications with patients |
| The disheartening of nurse-patient communications during the pandemic |
4.1. Theme No. 1: Nurses’ Close Relationship with Cancer Patients as a Double-edged Sword
Regarding the oncology nurses’ perspectives, most of them admitted the formation of a close relationship between nurses and patients in the Oncology Department and the existence of behavioral abnormalities in patient-nurse communications.
Regarding the formation of a close relationship between nurses and patients, the participants believed that the small environment of the Oncology Ward and the small number of patients are the factors causing nurses to spend extended periods of time with patients. Also, repeated visits and hospitalizations lead to the formation of this relationship by boosting nurses’ acquaintance with patients.
One of the nurses working in the Oncology Ward stated: “...Our patients generally visit the ward repeatedly…our patients have at least six treatment sessions, and some of them are coming for five or six years and sometimes continue to receive palliative care and therapy for the rest of their lives. During specific periods, for example, every 21 days, the patient comes to us to receive medications… I mean we come to know each other pretty well…sometimes leading to a familial form and closer relationships….” Participant No. 6
Another participant said: “... the relationship has been so close during the eight-year period I've been here, I’ve met patients and get acquainted with them so much so that they outnumbered the number of my relatives in my own city... because the environment is small; the number of patients is limited, so respective to big cities, patients, either hospitalized or outpatients, all know each other here….” Participant No. 4
Some participants mentioned some behavioral abnormalities in patient-nurse communications, including patients’ increased expectations because of the close relationship, confrontations and guarding of some cancer patients, patients’ unjustified expectations from nurses, and harms to nurses and patients because of the close relationship. The following is the statements of a nurse working in the Oncology Ward:
“Sometimes because of the bilateral emotional relationship formed with the patient, patients’ and their companions’ expectations grow…but in other hospital wards, for example, a patient comes once or twice, and then nurses and patients do not see each other, but this is not the case here...” Participant No. 6
Another participant acknowledged that “...because some patients visit here repeatedly, and their companions see that we have a close relationship with their patient, they may let themselves to have unjustified expectations and demands…for example, a patient with urinary incontinence expected us to change his diaper…you can’t tell them no...” Participant No. 8
The following are statements by other participants: “…because of this close relationship with the patients, some of them quickly guard against us and behave aggressively...” Participant No. 3 and “... A bond is formed, either way; patients come and go…you see some of them heading towards the end of their lives…so this close relationship sometimes bothers you…” Participant No. 18
4.2. Theme No. 2: Curvy and Sinusoidal Professional Communications for Oncology Nurses
According to the experiences of oncology nurses, nurses did not experience a uniform pattern in professional communication. In fact, the pattern of this relationship was curvy and sinusoidal, which was sometimes experienced as a threatening and sometimes very friendly professional relationship.
Two categories of efficient professional communications and professional communication threats emerged under this theme. Regarding the efficient professional communications category, the subcategories included the nurse’s easy access to the doctor, intimate attitude towards the ward’s doctors, the empathetic relationship between nurses, and friendly behaviors among nurses. The following are excerpts from the participants’ statements in this regard:
“...We are very intimate with our ward’s doctors. I personally have never had a problem with our doctors… and we have not had any problems with them about anything, for example, any explanation about the patient’s care process and treatment....” Participant No. 9
“... Our ward’s doctors, both of whom are female, Dr. S and Dr. R, are very good doctors. I mean… they treat the children with much kindness. For instance, once on a busy day, a patient had come from Baluchestan, and she did not let the patient go without a visit ...she called us to see if there was an empty bed …and we did our best to sort it out…” Participant No. 11
“... Our relationship is very friendly, both the supervisor and our other colleagues all understand each other in some way. This understanding itself makes bearing the problems much easier...” Participant No. 17
“… compared to other wards, colleagues here are much more intimate with each other, we spend time with each other outside the hospital…” Participant No. 10
The category of professional communication threats consisted of the subcategories of challenges in the nurse-doctor relationship, some physicians neglecting nurses while visiting patients, and tensions in the relationship between nurses and supervisors. The following are some of the participants’ statements:
“... Our head nurse gives more attention to some nurses. For example, we have a nurse with 10 years of work experience who has to do many shifts, but a nurse with seven years of work experience, who does fewer shifts… our new supervisor somehow shows discrimination in communication with nurses...” Participant No. 7
“…If I did not have this problem with the hospital’s authorities, I would not like to change my ward at all. I was very satisfied with my job, and I really loved to work in the Oncology Ward, but unfortunately, my superior did not support me and my nurses…” Participant No. 1
4.3. Theme No. 3: Communication with Opposite Gender Patients as a Missing Factor in Nursing
According to the participants’ statements, male nurses working in the Oncology Ward had several communication challenges. It was also stated that patients tended to have more trust in the same-gender nurses. These two categories formed the current theme.
Regarding the communication challenges of male nurses working in the Oncology Ward, the analysis of the participants’ interviews revealed the subcategories of the white coat syndrome disrupting the communication between sick children and male nurses, more willingness of children with cancer for female nurses, some female patients not communicating with male nurses, male nurses’ lack of empathy, and cultural barriers in male nurses’ communications. One of the oncology nurses addressed this issue as: “… To my opinion, the most difficult part for male oncology nurses is to establish a relationship with ill children and female patients. It is hard for me to communicate with children... it is hard; I really can’t do it…” Participant No. 7
Another participant said:” …Men are more rigid in their relationships because all they have is their pride. A man should be strong and proud...” Participant No. 5
Other participants also stated: “... for us, men, it can be said that we are somehow thick-skinned. I believe that the psychological aspect of communication is less important. For example, it is hard for us to empathize with the patient… in close relationships, female nurses are more affected…” Participant No. 7
"…For getting IV lines, well, female patients are much more sensitive ... this is because of their cultural background ... It had happened to me when I intended to puncture a female patient’s vein, but she did not allow me and asked for a female nurse… .” Participant No. 6
Some participants reported the tendency of female patients for female nurses to perform invasive procedures, insisting on receiving care from the same-gender nurses, and patients being more comfortable to establish verbal communication with the same-gender nurses. The following is the statement by one of the participants: “... Female patients are like this, if I want to take a blood sample, they say no, please send a female nurse, they trust in female nurses for vein puncture and other procedures more than in men…” Participant No. 7
“…Well, most of our patients prefer to communicate with the same-gender nurses ... male patients become more accustomed to male nurses, and female patients like to speak to female nurses and prefer communicating with them... Unfortunately, we do not have male nurses at the moment, they have been here before but have left for other wards, and this is a challenge for us….” Participant No. 18
4.4. Theme No. 4: Marginalization of Communications in the Shadow of the Coronavirus Outbreak
As our study was performed during the COVID-19 pandemic, one of the challenges experienced by oncology nurses (the fourth theme) was the marginalization of communications in the shadow of the coronavirus outbreak. Most participants acknowledged the weakening and disheartening of nurse-patient relationships during this time.
The category of the weakening of the nurse-patient relationship during the coronavirus outbreak consisted of the subcategories of avoiding patients during the outbreak, keeping distance from patients, not allowing patients’ companions to enter the ward, and separating patients due to the coronavirus pandemic. The following are excerpts from the participants’ statements in this regard:
“… Well, because of the COVID-19 pandemic, which has been here for a while now, our patients have to remain in their homes…their mental health has been damaged…their communications have been limited…they are not allowed to bring companions to the ward…and they are alone in their rooms…” Participant No. 10, “... It has become hard for us during the coronavirus pandemic … communications are not face-to-face anymore, and our relationships with patients have been reduced ... ..” Participant No. 13, “… A week after I was in contact with a patient, I got the coronavirus disease … afterward, I was becoming distressed when I approached patients … we would give them a series of recommendations to sit apart from each other and advise colleagues to not get too close to patients ...” Participant No. 12
Regarding the patient-nurse relationship becoming disheartened and cold, the subcategories included the shadow of fear in communications and limiting communications to the care provision time. These notions emerged in the participants’ statements as follows: “...Before the COVID-19 pandemic, we used to change the mood of our patients ourselves for example by a small celebration party…we used to throw parties a lot…but during the coronavirus pandemic, there is nothing we can do, not even a small party …” Participant No. 18
“...We had a patient who was hospitalized for a month. Two weeks later, we realized that he tested positive for the COVID-19. Our colleagues did not wear any protective clothes when they sent the patient’s sample. The stress of getting infected by patients exists, so we go to patients’ rooms less frequently since then ...” Participant No. 7
“.... COVID-19 has affected communications to a great extent. We always have to wear a face mask coming in or going out…you cannot see anybody’s face … and should always be alert for observing health instructions ...” Participant No. 14