The present study examined the structural pathways linking fear of intimacy to divorce proneness among married women in Hamadan, Iran, with particular attention to the mediating roles of sexual satisfaction and emotional satisfaction. A key finding was a statistically significant positive direct association between fear of intimacy and divorce proneness. This suggests that greater anxiety regarding emotional vulnerability and closeness increases cognitive and behavioral tendencies toward marital dissolution. Theoretically, fear of intimacy functions as a defensive mechanism that impedes the development of a secure relational foundation. By avoiding authentic self-disclosure to reduce the risk of rejection or loss of autonomy, individuals maintain superficial interactions, thereby increasing marital fragility in the face of stressors. These results are consistent with recent empirical evidence indicating that fear of intimacy, or related constructs such as intimacy avoidance, is a key predictor of relational difficulties, reduced marital satisfaction, and increased instability or dissolution risk. For example, Finzi-Dottan (
24) used an actor-partner interdependence model to show that fear of intimacy mediates the association between self-differentiation and marital relationship satisfaction in both partners, with lower self-differentiation contributing to higher fear of intimacy and subsequently reduced satisfaction. Similarly, studies in Iranian contexts have linked fear of intimacy to adverse marital outcomes, including reduced adjustment, heightened emotional barriers, and increased vulnerability to relational breakdown in culturally evolving settings. Seyfizadeh et al. (
25) reported a significant relationship between early maladaptive schemas and marital adjustment, with fear of intimacy acting as a mediator among married individuals.
Fear of intimacy also exerted a significant negative effect on sexual satisfaction. Sexual intimacy extends beyond physical acts to encompass deep emotional exposure and mutual attunement. Individuals with high fear of intimacy often exhibit performance-related anxiety or emotional disengagement during sexual interactions to maintain psychological distance, thereby hindering reciprocal responsiveness and reducing overall fulfillment (
24). This pattern aligns with Dosch et al.'s (
26) assertion that psychological impediments often outweigh physiological factors in shaping sexual satisfaction, as well as Amirahmadi et al.'s (
18) observation that mindfulness and openness are foundational to adaptive sexual dynamics among married Iranian women.
A similar negative association was observed between fear of intimacy and emotional satisfaction. Emotional fulfillment requires transparency, trust, and responsiveness to a partner's relational bids, elements that may be perceived as threatening by individuals who fear intimacy. Suppression of emotional needs and limited reciprocity can create an emotional vacuum, culminating in loneliness and perceived neglect. This finding is consistent with Mirzazade et al.'s (
27) emphasis on mutual vulnerability as essential for emotional contentment and with Dehghanidowlatabadi et al.'s (
28) documentation of emotional disconnection as a primary contributor to declining marital quality in Iranian couples.
Sexual satisfaction emerged as a significant negative predictor of divorce proneness. Within the marital system, sexual fulfillment functions as a strong buffer against stressors, fostering a sense of exclusivity, belonging, and relational reward. Higher sexual satisfaction reinforces perceptions of the marriage as a worthwhile investment, thereby reducing thoughts of separation. Deficits, conversely, may foster resentment and perceptions of burden. These observations are consistent with Rusbult et al.'s (
17) investment model, which positions satisfaction as a core determinant of commitment, and with broader evidence linking sexual health to marital longevity.
Emotional satisfaction similarly played a protective role against divorce proneness. It provides the psychological cohesion necessary to withstand relational challenges. For many women, feeling genuinely understood and valued is a paramount factor in sustaining commitment; its presence increases the perceived costs of dissolution. This accords with attachment theory perspectives, in which emotional security underpins relational endurance, and with family psychology research indicating that emotional neglect is a stronger precursor to divorce than socioeconomic stressors.
Importantly, mediation analyses showed that fear of intimacy influences divorce proneness indirectly by eroding sexual and emotional satisfaction, with significant indirect effects of medium magnitude confirmed through bootstrapping. Rather than inevitably precipitating divorce, fear undermines everyday relational rewards, progressively fostering dissatisfaction and desires for separation. This mechanism highlights the importance of targeting core intimacy deficits in therapeutic practice. Clinicians should address not only overt conflicts but also underlying barriers to vulnerability, thereby restoring sexual and emotional bonds and reducing dissolution risk.
5.1. Conclusions
In conclusion, this study demonstrates that fear of intimacy is a critical psychological precursor of divorce proneness among married women, influencing divorce proneness both directly and indirectly through the mediating pathways of sexual satisfaction and emotional satisfaction. The findings indicate that an internal resistance to vulnerability not only diminishes the quality of the marital bond but also significantly accelerates progression toward marital instability. By clarifying these mediating pathways and reporting effect sizes and confidence intervals, the study highlights the substantial variance explained in divorce proneness and underscores the need to address intimacy-related anxieties in clinical and therapeutic contexts. Accordingly, therapeutic interventions aimed at fostering emotional openness and sexual fulfillment may serve as effective buffers against the risk of separation, providing a strategic framework for enhancing marital longevity and preserving family cohesion.
5.2. Limitations and Future Directions
One major limitation of this study is its cross-sectional design, which precludes definitive causal inferences and prevents examination of how these relationships evolve over time. Moreover, the use of convenience sampling among married women in Hamadan limits the generalizability of the findings to other groups, such as men, individuals living in rural areas, or those from varied socioeconomic backgrounds.
Future research would benefit from longitudinal designs to better establish the directionality of effects, as well as from collecting dyadic data from both spouses to provide a more comprehensive picture of the marital dynamics involved. Including male participants and more diverse Iranian samples would further elucidate gender-specific and culturally nuanced mechanisms of intimacy and stability.