Effective emotion regulation strategies enable individuals to manage their emotional responses, particularly negative emotions like sadness and anger. This skill empowers individuals in various aspects of life, including interpersonal relationships, empathy, and navigating partnerships (
1,
2). Conversely, inadequate management of negative emotions, such as sadness, can lead to a cascade of negative outcomes, including academic difficulties, social performance deficits, psychological maladaptation, depression, and even poor physical health (
3,
4). However, current strategies for emotional control and management in children often overlook the crucial aspect of sadness regulation. The inability to manage sadness effectively can negatively impact a child's personal well-being and overall health (
5). While sadness is a natural human emotion often associated with loss (
6), children who learn healthy coping mechanisms for sadness develop greater psychological and social competence (
7). In contrast, children who express their sadness inappropriately may miss out on potential support systems, increasing their risk of developing mental health problems and disorders (
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Children with specific learning disabilities (SpLDs) are at increased risk for emotional difficulties. While their academic challenges are well-documented, other aspects of their experiences often receive less attention (
9). Importantly, SpLDs frequently co-occur with a range of emotional and behavioral characteristics that require consideration during diagnosis and intervention (
10). These characteristics may include deficits in concentration and attention, reduced physical activity, social withdrawal, low self-esteem, emotional dysregulation, and feelings of sadness (
11,
12). Early in life, caregivers play a crucial role in helping children regulate their emotions. As children develop, they increasingly rely on emotion regulation strategies learned within the parent-child relationship (
13). Parental acceptance and appropriate responses to both positive and negative emotions pave the way for healthy social development in children (
14). However, it is important to acknowledge that the development of emotion management skills is influenced by complex factors, including gender, social context, and cultural background.
Children’s emotional management is significantly influenced by their parents and parental issues (
15). Many factors affect a father's level of involvement, including his own responsibilities, as well as the characteristics of both the parents and the child (
16). The concept of paternal involvement in parenting was first proposed by Lamb in 1997 (
17). In an influential model of paternal involvement, Lamb conceptualized three types of involvement: (A) accessibility, (B) interaction/engagement, and (C) responsibility (
18). Children's mental health in adulthood is positively correlated with their father's emotional involvement during their upbringing. Better father-child relationships result in less stress, improved problem-solving skills, and increased adaptability during adolescence. Since men are less accustomed to and less at ease expressing emotions, due to gender expectations regarding sadness, fathers may respond less supportively to their children's emotions (
19). Studies have shown that paternal involvement and support are crucial to the mother's health when the child has a disability (
20). Put differently, the mother's mental well-being and satisfaction with her role are influenced by the father's involvement, which indirectly affects the child's mental health (
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Mothers are more in touch with their children than fathers; therefore, it is necessary to address maternal characteristics (
22). Cognitive emotion regulation is one of these traits. One of the most crucial human abilities is the capacity to control and modify one's emotions in response to the demands of particular situations (
23). Emotion regulation refers to the ability to control and adapt internal states, impulses, and behaviors to achieve goals. It includes the processes by which individuals manage and express their emotions (
24). Studies have shown that individuals who struggle to regulate their emotions experience more negative emotions (
25). The greater one’s ability to regulate their emotions, the fewer depressive symptoms one reports (
26). When emotions are difficult to control, individuals may resort to unhealthy coping mechanisms. These strategies include inappropriate reactions, poor behavioral control in the face of emotional disturbances, and inefficient use of emotional information (
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Mothers of children with SpLDs struggle with emotion regulation and the cognitive processing of emotional information. A person experiences emotional and cognitive confusion and helplessness when emotional information cannot be perceived and assessed through cognitive processing (
28). Mothers with strong emotion regulation skills can better comprehend their children’s moods and fulfill their maternal responsibilities. Studies have shown that the inability to control emotions leads to inappropriate parenting methods, whereas the ability to regulate emotions is associated with sensitive and responsive parenting styles (
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The presence of a child with an SpLD can significantly impact family dynamics. These challenges extend beyond academic difficulties and often necessitate substantial lifestyle adjustments for families. The demands of supporting a child with an SpLD can strain family relationships, roles, and financial resources. Additionally, parental employment status, time management, mental health, and even major life decisions can be affected. While the impact of SpLDs on family dynamics is well-documented, limited research has explored the specific roles of paternal involvement and maternal emotion regulation in supporting children's emotional well-being in this context.